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  • EstraDoll [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    26·
    3 days ago

    my egg cracked less than a year ago and now i’m completely and utterly stupefied that I ever even believed for a moment that I was a man. Like, not only do I look back thinking that I was always a girl, I don’t even believe myself when I think that before 2023, I legitimately believed that I was male. I know that fact is true but I don’t even believe that I believed it

    • TerminalEncounter [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
      13·
      2 days ago

      I had such a loose association with being a man or a boy, as a kid it rarely came to mind except all the fuckin times I did ridiculous shit like try to cast magic spells or wish to be a girl or dunk cold fucking water on my head like I was Ranma. As an adult, it was more of a resignation - “oh yeah, I guess I’m a guy. A lot of my friends are girls, I’m a super ally, I’m attracted to my partner partially because they fuck a lot with gender, I love drag and do at every opportunity including very stretched opportunities, I know a lot about transitioning… but I’m a guy I guess.” lol

    • yewler [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
      13·
      3 days ago

      I feel this big time. It’s unbelievable to me that there was ever a time before the egg crack and it’s not even been half a year for me. I regularly unlock new egg memories that make so much more sense now and it will be forever baffling that these moments didn’t crack me sooner