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Going from dating as a cishet man to a trans lesbian is both a blessing and a curse
The relationships are so much better but holy shit it’s so much harder to just get a date
Not sure if it actually has to do with being trans but it’s so painful to my self esteem
It mostly has to do with you being a woman because you know… straight women are not an option anymore.
Idk, I live in a very queer city and I’m constantly meeting new bis and lesbians and I have like hundreds of matches on apps but it takes so much more effort to get an actual date than before
Have you ever asked other sapphic women living there about their experiences? Maybe the dating culture is just different than the straight one?
This has made me realize I’ve never experienced dating as a cishet man or teenager (as much as a trans woman can atleast).
Like…I had attraction towards women and girls my age, but I never really acted on it or pursued anything.
Probably because I was a massive bottom.
Then when I started exploring and pondering my sexuality I realized I was Bi and mostly pursued guys romantically.
And now I’m basically T4T, not that I would really be looking for an additional relationship with a trans person now (let alone cis people).