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Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net to chat@hexbear.netEnglish · 2 days ago

I've had 2 drinks and I'm an ultra-lightweight, ask me anything

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I've had 2 drinks and I'm an ultra-lightweight, ask me anything

Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net to chat@hexbear.netEnglish · 2 days ago
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    Top 10 anime betrayals

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      oooaaaaaaauhhh

  • rake_in_lake [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    are you tired of being nice don't you just want to go apeshit?

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      sometimes I do.

    • KuroXppi [they/them]@hexbear.net
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      I recognised it before unblurring

  • SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    No questions just make sure to hydrate before you go to bed.

    • Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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      Will do, thanks!!!

  • rake_in_lake [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    The theory reading lists are awesome, do you have any thoughts on readings for kids that help introduce theory?

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      I like dialectics4kids! Ignore the anti-communist bits the author puts in, these are great explanations of dialectical materialism for young children in an extremely digestible way.

      And thanks so much!

      • rake_in_lake [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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        sankara-salute

        • Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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          rat-salute

      • miz [any, any]@hexbear.net
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        Ignore the anti-communist bits the author puts in,

        I would have to edit them out to vent my anger

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          Fair, lol

  • Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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    Goodnight! I’m safe, no need to worry (for those that may). sleepi

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    If you’re lightweight can I pick you up and throw you like a basketball?

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      at the present moment probably no but in the morning perhaps yes

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    What were the drinks?

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      A bourbon and some fuck-off tequila cocktail. I enjoy bourbon from time to time, but the cocktail was for the spirit of it all.

      heh, spirit

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        Nice what kind of Bourbon? I love a good bourbon.

        • Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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          The bar had Angel’s Envy, so that’s what I had. It was pretty nice! Kinda smooth and a tiny bit winey.

          • Johnny_Arson [they/them]@hexbear.net
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            No shit lol that’s what my neighbor was serving last night when I got home. Good shit.

            • Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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              Hell yea!

  • corgiwithalaptop [any, love/loves]@hexbear.net
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    How do i deal with the crippling frustration and self esteem issues i have about my band, and nobody larger being able or willing to celebrate our 10 year anniversary, while still feeling motivated enough to put on something of my own to celebrate 10 years of sticking with and building something on a personal level?

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      Congratulations on 10 years with your band!

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        Thanks! Appreciate it!

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      That’s tough, comrade. Lacking recognition in those “ahead” in certain metrics can certainly be crushing, regardless of field. It’s something we can all relate to. However, I think having a solid foundation in yourself, and telling the world that you made it, can often be satisfying in its own way. You’ve stuck with a project for 10 years, that’s longer than I’ve been able to stick with anything. It’s incredibly impressive, and frankly awe-inspiring. The recognition may not come from your peers, but know that you’ve got at least 2 people here that think you’re cool as fuck!

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        cuddle

        Appreciate that comrade. It just feels crushing sometimes that none of this has turned out how I imagined. Didn’t even want to hit it big or anything, just recognition from a local band.

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          Yea, I know that must be frustrating.

          cuddle

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      hey I’m the third person in awe that you’ve kept a band together for 10 years

      congrats! definitely warrants a show imo

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        Thanks! Appreciate it! Im just bummed cause it cant turn out how I wanted it to and that makes my brain sad.

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      I’m gonna pop in cause we operate in similar circles. You’ve been in the ssme band for 10 years, in punk/metal terms for a band not making money primarily by playing that is a long time for a band to last. I’ve personally gotten pretty cynical regarding the diy punk touring situation where its so heavily based in big fests now and putting up more small bands doing smaller shows has really gotten lost. The bigger bands from my town only play Montreal and fests theyre flown out to at this point. I just make weird music as a hobby now and collaborate with 1 other person on occasion and play noise once or twice a month under a bridge. Im just.lokomg what I do for what it is.

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        Yeah, ive got a lot to untangle in my head about whether I wanna keep doing it. Im also mopey cause none of the bigger bands give a shit about us. Its fun to play guitar sometimes, but yeah. Gotta sort out my feelings on my own. Dont even get me started on the scene.

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    Are you me? Because I am also a lightweight and had two drinks and am currently laying down

    • Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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      Basically the same person.

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        • Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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          Mas o menos.

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            • Cowbee [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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              hell yea

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    I wish I was that efficient with alcohol.

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      A blessing and a curse

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        More time for water drinking.

        I’ve been refilling beer cans with water at parties since I was 26, and I don’t even hide it. It’s just a container I’ve already put my mouth on.

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          Yep! Gotta stay hydrated! Knowing my limit is 2 is just a handy rule to keep in mind.

  • Wisp [fae/faer, any]@hexbear.net
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    Favorite horror movie?

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      Not sure if it’s directly horror, but I like Silence of the Lambs and Alien! Both are classics. I also liked Exhuma, for something more recent.

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    Enjoy that shit for those of us who can’t. Cheers!

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      Will do! rat-salute

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    Whats your favorite show slop at the moment (can be a top 5 if you cant pick one)

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      I’ve been watching Bridgerton with my spouse recently (I know, we both hate the aristocracy but it’s sloppy slop)! I’m not so much a show guy as others are. The last show I really enjoyed was Dungeon Meshi I think!

      izutsumi-idea

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        No way, i am also watching Bridgerton with my partner!

        I don’t pay much attention to it, but I can appreciate how it basically does every single Victorian romance trope

        Having read most of the classics in college, the only thing they haven’t done is the madwoman in the attic, but maybe that’s next season?

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          Maybe! We actually are nearing the end of the first season right now. Other old romances we have a soft spot for are Emma and Pride and Prejudice, both are just fun to watch on a rainy night in.

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    The fluidity of the real makes distilling hard proof of falsehood a spirited affair. Do you concur?

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      Absolutely 100-com

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    How long have you been boxing?

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      -20 minutes

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