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Maven (famous)@lemmy.zip to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 20 hours ago

Prove it rule

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Maven (famous)@lemmy.zip to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 20 hours ago
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    FWG4SASS

    Fat white guy looking for sub and sub sandwich

  • Gonzako@lemmy.world
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    Can confirm, the cuties here are amazing. Some great memories of mine started as a DM here.

  • Hildegard (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Grrr my enemy

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      Germany?

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    I mean I could add a few more pussies to my group. On the other hand they are carving for more attention than I am currently able to give so maybe more of a switch person idk

  • Teagan@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Hekwbusbwkwkhsnehdjsnkjb

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    14 hours ago

    W-what do you even do with us them…?😳

    • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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      Everybody is different. Some want to be bullied, some want to be hurt, some want to worship, some want to brat and be made to behave…

      A large part of the fun is figuring out where your kinks overlap and how you can please each other.

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        10 hours ago

        (⸝⸝0⸝⸝0⸝⸝)

        • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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          *scritchscritch* I wonder what this cute little fox is into

          • CheesyFox
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            7 hours ago

            eheheh~

            uhm… lots of… stuff… i guess…

            >///<

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    16 hours ago

    Hey it’s me :3

    • Maven (famous)@lemmy.zipOP
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      16 hours ago

      :333

      • Gyrcas@piefed.zip
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        16 hours ago

        Did it work, did you get subs in your dms? :3

        • AlligatorBlizzard@sh.itjust.works
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          4 hours ago

          Did it work for you?

          • Gyrcas@piefed.zip
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            2 hours ago

            Not yet, but I’d say there is some potential with how some are commenting :3

            • AlligatorBlizzard@sh.itjust.works
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              Good luck! :3

              I try to be careful on 196 because I’m in my 30s and there’s a number of regular hornyposters that are way too young for me, and I’m way too masc to be an attractive sub by 196 standards. Also I realized I’ve already been in Maven’s DMs in a context that would make this weird LOL.

              • Gyrcas@piefed.zip
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                Thanks :3

                I’m also pretty masc, I basically have a bear body, but I was surprised that multiple people liked my body, it gave me a huge confidence boost :3

                I always ask people their age before getting freaky, so I think I should be fine

        • Maven (famous)@lemmy.zipOP
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          15 hours ago

          No lol nothing so far

    • Maven (famous)@lemmy.zipOP
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      16 hours ago

      :333

  • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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    Alright who wants their hair pulled let’s form an orderly line here

    • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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      Are boys welcome in this que, or is this a ladies only offer…? 👉🏻👈🏻

      • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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        I’ll pull your hair just right little one. What I whisper in your ear while doing it is going to be a lot different if you’re cis or trans though!

        • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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          🙃🙃🙃❤️

          Cis or trans is real fuckin messy and complicated lol, but cis is probably more accurate. I’m amab and generally masc aligned. Everything beyond that is complicated 😅

          • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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            then you’ll be getting as much force-feminization as you’ll consent to 😈

            If life hands you boys, make girls!

            • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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              Unfortunately forced fem is kind of a hard limit for me 😅 I had a long period of being more femme and am working to intentionally reclaim masculinity, at least for the parts that do connect with me. I’m still on estrogen by choice, have boobs, and sit down to pee out of preference, so what masculinity means to me is obviously a bit different than most masc aligned people. Sometimes I kinda struggle with feeling like I’ll only be received positively and appreciated in femininity.

              But I appreciate the energy and flirting regardless! ☺️❤️

              • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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                Valid and heard 🫡 consent is super important

                so what do you like to have whispered into your ear as you’re being lightly abused by a lesbian mommy-domme little one?

                • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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                  Uhhh

                  That I’m pleasing. That I’m wanted. And things that make clear they can see through my reflexive masking of social vulnerability, like hiding when I enjoy something 🥹

                  If someone can see that I’m wet, or see how I’m avoiding eye contact, or see that I’m squirming and I’m not able to hide how I’m reflexively reacting to them, them pointing it out and clearly enjoying that they can see through me and find my vulnerability gratifying turns my brain into mush…

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      Im lining up to eagerly wait my turn

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        I’m in line too (,>﹏<,)

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          Alright now be a good girl and sit on your hands this is going to hurt a little but I know you can take it for me💕

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            Okayy (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶)

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        Aren’t you a good girl waiting your turn. I’ll hurt you just right little one. 💋

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    New Lemmy trend is sub fishing?

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      World’s easiest sport

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    If all the subs are being taken, who will teach the classes now???

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    I would like to express interest in becoming sub commander.

    We dive at 7 bells

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    Can confirm. So many good girls who have never had a firm hand with proper validation & guidance and they are soooo cute. 😍

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      who have never had a firm hand with proper validation & guidance

      What does this mean?

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        Submissives like to give control to Doms. A good Dom recognizes the psychological aspect to the power exchange

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    :3

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    🌟 good post

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