consent is a two way street, you both need to consent, if you say no more, then that should be the end of it. she cant force you to stay with her this way, and its a common abuse tactic to manipulate people.

I think you deserve better, and spending time on this person who clearly does not care about you or have your best interests at heart is a waste of your time. it may be best to put some distance between you two, I don’t see how giving them opportunity to hurt you more will help.

I’m terribly sorry that this person does not care about you, I hope you can spend your time and efforts on somebody who has your best interests at heart. everybody deserves love, and that includes you.

it will be arbitrary

femboys rule :3

trolls aren’t going to not troll just because there are well defined rules, in fact in can have the opposite effect, trolls using the rules as a weapon in their trolling.

in some of your comments you talk about checks and balances in terms of governance. well lemmy is not a democracy plain and simple, server owners have full control, and this is a feature not a bug. having full control means that you can abuse your power sure, but echo chambers aren’t fun without people to troll, and the open nature of the fediverse means people will go wherever they like best. and for what it’s worth the vibe here is better than anywhere else on lemmy in my experience.

and as for your last point, this space is not intended for transphobes to better themselves, it is meant as a place for trans people to feel safe. if a troll comes here and betters themselves somehow, great, but that’s not the goal of this place. we’re here because we’re sick of having cis het normative being the standard, and we wanna be ourselves, not conform to the straights and what they want us to be.

it’s from a show called she ra

but on a serious note, I’m not sure the specific video on YouTube sorry.

I’m very creepy thank you very much <3

you mean there are cute lesbians and all i need to do is climb a mountain?

you get it <3

jokes on you i never sleep anyways :3

when isnt she?

look at me I’m a target!

mostly because i cant afford ac

sometimes I go feral, hopefully it’s contained to the bed and not somewhere like the kitchen or garage.

I can cook, clean, and I’m already partially house trained meow

the good news is you can be!

but how could I not love such a cute girl?

there is a likely correlation between people likely to be homophobes and people likely to have ruined society.

good point, thanks for the catch <3