About 2 weeks, had a boyfriend into the idea of Excessive Cum, and heard saving up made it so there was more, that and drinking more and having magnesium-rich foods

I wanted to see if the orgasms would get better / stronger by waiting. Of course they did, but waiting got to be absolute torture, and very distracting too.

The first two days were no big deal, I just got stuck into work and cleaning / chores.

But by day three I was starting to see the world differently. You know how someone dying of dehydration in the desert will start to hallucinate water holes everywhere? It was like that.

My busty and free-spirited neighbour Sue wanted help getting something down from a high cabinet so I held her wiggling hips as she stood on the step ladder singing some Lady Gaga song. Thing is, she was wearing these yoga pants that clung to her like paint and I could see every important detail, which was not hard since her pussy was about thirty centimetres from my face as she strained to reach, standing higher on her painted toes, all the muscles in her legs and arse tensed and ready like a trap laid out to catch a wild animal.

When I got home the other neighbours were having sex loudly and I always like to rub myself to their image since they are hot (it’s like a three-way that they don’t even know about) but this time I just went and stood in the shower and blasted myself with cold water until I stopped thinking about tits and pussies and started thinking about how long it takes for a person to die from hypothermia.

The next day I made the mistake of going to the gym. Stupid I know. Katy the slutty influencer with the massive jugs was lying face down on a bench sobbing while her personal trainer who looks a lot like Margot Robbie, kneaded the back of her legs with long, experienced, capable, strong, caring fingers. Katy was having a sook about some injury that was probably bullshit knowing her, but that didn’t matter, what mattered were the long, sensual caresses up and down the backs of those tight nineteen year old thighs and the way Margot looked like she was enjoying it as much as I was enjoying watching. They looked up and caught me staring so I said “Ummm” and ran into the change rooms like I had forgotten something.

That was my second big mistake. In the changerooms were three members of the local university women’s volleyball team. They were sitting in a line on the benches and rubbing deep heat on each other’s shoulders and laughing with their ample breasts hanging out for the whole world to see. The six breasts bounced in a certain deterministic order like the cylinders firing in a slutty engine as they laughed loudly and I found myself hypnotized like a fool staring at a swinging pocket watch. The looked around and saw me so I ran out again and back to my car.

The next day was the one that broke me. Lady from across the street (who I think was dealing drugs) was getting arrested. Two twenty something blonde police officers had her face down on the grass out the front of her house. One of them had their knee in her back. The other held her hands together behind her back and got cuffs on her. I swear one of those hands cupped her arse and the cop licked her neck but it could just be my mind playing tricks - that is the danger of playing with this stuff.

I said out loud “fuck this experiment” and ended the torturous streak while I was watching them though the window. Maybe it works for some people but this stuff is not for me.

So my longest is about 5 days I think, but my mind was not working right at the end so it’s hard to say.

I always practice it either by edging without release or by doing anal play, but I haven’t caged myself long term yet.

The effects for me are:

• being on the verge of arousal all of the time, which is such a fun feeling
• being a lot more in touch with my kinks and sexuality, without any shame
• a significant reducing of overthinking
• a lot more leaking, which I find really arousing
• sexual fantasies are longer and more detailed
• I appreciate my whole body a lot more, I can just touch everywhere forever

What’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?

For me it was 30 days.

If done intentionally, what were you hoping to achieve?

The first time I did, it was just to see how I’d feel. Since then it has become a normal part of my sexuality. What I’m hoping to achieve every time now are the effects I listed above.

Why did you end the orgasm denial streak?

Sometimes it’s by accident, but I’ve gotten better at this. My discipline is definitely a lot better now. When it’s not by accident I just felt like I’ve pushed myself enough and allow myself a release. Sometimes I set a specific amount of days as a minimum.

Did you do it solo or with a partner?

For me it’s been solo.

Also, if you’re into this sort of thing

I definitely am as you can probably tell and I instantly subscribed, thanks for making it! We definitely need more proper communities for this topic. Also thank you for making this post!

I don’t think I’ve gone a full day without orgasm since I discovered what an orgasm is. However, I think abstaining for short periods of time will benefit me, much like not drinking alcohol or energy drinks every day benefits me.

I look forward to hearing about your journey as I make my way through mine.

Good luck, have fun.

For me (36M sissy/beta sub), the longest I’ve gone is 52 days. I was helped motivationally through the first 2-3 weeks due to healing from circumcision.

I do orgasm denial to try and elicit my more submissive and feminine sides. The main negative effect is that it can make me irritable or cranky; also getting stuff done as opposed to looking at erotic content online for lengthy periods of time due to unrelenting horniness can be really tough.

I ended that 52-day streak because I was questioning why I was doing it, and gave in. It was an interesting orgasm. Ejaculation-wise, it was a solid 7/10 come - I was a little disappointed tbh but I didn’t fap for long. However, psychologically, it blew my mind; I was giggly and tingly in a 9/10 kind of way, which I loved. A wild guess is that I might need to go without for a month to experience that. idk. (My baseline is ~4 orgasms a week.)

I’m on another streak now, and I’m trying to be more focused in why I’m doing this to set a new personal best, heck, ideally, go orgasmfree all of 2026 🤞😘

The effect is I cum too fast, not even more pleasurable, because I cum TOO fast. Much, MUCH more cum!

The opposite leads to me cumming less than a tea spoon. I managed to cum 5 times yesterday.

For me about 3 weeks. But normally one or two. I do this on a cycle almost. Sometimes I just have no interest, but it’s more that I feel much more sexual when i haven’t come for a long time. Touches feel much stronger, I get more precummy which is exciting and when I do come it feels much better. If I leave it too long it starts getting painful though. A month is too much.

I normally wait a week or maybe two and then start edging for an hour or more, then leave it without finishing and do it again for a day or two or more. Strange enough I don’t really get ‘blueballed’. Eventually I’ll screw up and go too far like I did today :( . I use a masturbator synced to VR with an edging button but I pressed the wrong one and suddenly made it go flat out for half a sec at the wrong moment lol. It was nice but I was hoping to stretch it more.

The next days I won’t be in the mood, my ultra sensitivity will be gone etc. I wish I could recover faster. I can still cum again but it won’t feel very good.

I usually do it alone, I do have some friends I do stuff with but usually it’s not edging as you really have to be able to read each other for that. I’m male, 40s in Spain. Currently poly but solo though I have a few open friends. Heteroflex. Submissive bdsm too. I deeply love slow and sensual, I can get a lingam massage for 1,5 hours and in trance at the end lol. I don’t like hard & fast.

All day, I was trying to not cum for a bit, in order to practice restraint I guess. But I was being dumb by looking up porn and edging. Eventually, I caved.

Massive cum as you can imagine, massive relief, massive shame.

EDIT: Think 6 months might have been the longest 0_0

Being cristian once, really did fuck with me.

A week.

Does it count if it’s because I was on a bus ride across country at the time and had no privacy? It’s certainly the longest I ever went without an orgasm since puberty, and when I got home and finally relieved myself, I came like a quart.