If done intentionally, what were you hoping to achieve? What effects did you notice, both desirable and undesirable? Why did you end the orgasm denial streak? What did you learn from the experience? Did you do it solo or with a partner? Demographic details (eg, age, sex, gender, sexual orientation, relevant kinks), if you care to share, are also helpful to understand your experience.
Btw, I created an !orgasm_denial_psychology@lemmynsfw.com community.
I always practice it either by edging without release or by doing anal play, but I haven’t caged myself long term yet.
The effects for me are:
For me it was 30 days.
The first time I did, it was just to see how I’d feel. Since then it has become a normal part of my sexuality. What I’m hoping to achieve every time now are the effects I listed above.
Sometimes it’s by accident, but I’ve gotten better at this. My discipline is definitely a lot better now. When it’s not by accident I just felt like I’ve pushed myself enough and allow myself a release. Sometimes I set a specific amount of days as a minimum.
For me it’s been solo.
I definitely am as you can probably tell and I instantly subscribed, thanks for making it! We definitely need more proper communities for this topic. Also thank you for making this post!
Thank you so much for sharing all that (!!) and for the appreciation of content!
It sounds like your sexuality is expanded overall (like multi-dimensionally) with orgasm denial. I found this effect especially neat: “being a lot more in touch with my kinks and sexuality, without any shame”
That’s such an interesting way to say it, haven’t thought of it that way before. Now you got me thinking. 😅
That’s what we’re here for 🫡