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clarify what you mean

I just mean that if you don’t feel better mentally and physically after a sexual session whether solo or with a partner, then it’s not done right. By “the idea” I just meant, that should be the intention going into it always, not just to have an empty release.

yes, we still remember that embarrassing thing you said 25 years ago

If you remember pointless stuff like this, you didn’t have much to think about during that period.

has the potential to push one into a headspace for a while of not thinking about or being interested in sex

That was the original idea of chastity after all. Even without a cage I think without enough stimulation it dies off even if doing denial, especially combined with being tired from work and etc.

It felt like I was touching my main sex organ

Yep, you’re on the right track.

And my mood improved.

This should always be the idea!

That’s so cute and really hot! 🧡

And then we wonder why more people are becoming cynical.

Communication that can’t be shut down

Uhm, it can definitely be shut down with enough funding. We’re at the mercy of rich people in any case.

Whether we wanted to be or not, we’re building the resistance network.

I’m sorry, but I can’t take this seriously right now. How are you resisting exactly? It’s not as if you’re building a whole new infrastructure from scratch, you’re just rearranging the same pieces over and over again and it leads to no changes in the foundation.

Self-hosting is cool, but it’s not a meaningful change in the big picture. As you saw, one manufacturer decided to do something stupid, RAM prices went up, that’s it, simple as that. And you depend on that, unless you have a way to manufacture it yourself, you’re at their mercy.

Self-hosting social networks doesn’t fix the foundational problems with online human communication right now either. It helps a bit, but fix, definitely no.

When self-hosting becomes too expensive, what can you do? Nothing, absolutely nothing.

Now, my goal is not to discourage trying, but looking at what we’re actually doing and how to actually make a change. Chasing our own tails will get us nowhere and I fear that’s what powerful people are counting on. “Go play with your cute toys, leave the toy making to us!”

There are hot single bots for sure.

I don’t think there’s any toy that can taste like pussy right now. Maybe there is some Japanese lube which gets close to smell and taste, but the material of the toy itself will always feel off. There probably are some DIY projects to make it a bit closer, but I haven’t looked into that.

That’s perfection! 💖

Yeah and seem to mess with blood pressure way too much.

Hmm another mention of poppers, but they still scare me a bit. 😅

Literally me.

Now I’m more in the poly community which is very open about stuff but random encounters don’t tend to last long enough to really explore.

I completely understand that, I also have a bit of experience with poly and it’s been the same for me. Despite this, I’m definitely more in favor of this type of relationship, it feels so much healthier if done well.

And my last long-term partner was very conservative sexually.

Yep that explains it.

For me I really love when they squirt in my mouth also but many girls (even poly/open) are a bit embarrassed about that.

Sounds hot and seems like you need a watersports kind of girl. 😅

Really? I do feel like I know a lot better what I’m doing when I give those.

Believe me, yes. You might just have a general feel for it, but some people with penises don’t and that’s fine, I’m not saying it in a judgemental way, it’s just an observation. It’s the same with kissing, we all have lips and tongues, we know how they feel, but sometimes it takes practice to get good at it and some people have a natural feel for it for whatever reason.

I wouldn’t be able to stop playing with myself :D

Hehe cute! 🩷 I’m really glad you’ve started your journey! I hope you get to explore as much as you want, you deserve it!

There’s a difference between edging to have an intense orgasm later and to tease yourself without release long term in order to create an overall needy feeling. Everybody can experience this buildup, it’s not related to gender in any way. I personally never do denial for intense orgasms, I don’t care about orgasms much to be honest, they’re a cool experience, but it’s one among many many cool things you can experience sexually.

It’s hard to give oral just right without ever having had a vagina

It sounds like you need a partner who gives you proper feedback. It’s hard only when there’s no proper communication.

because I don’t know how it feels

You can be bad at blowjobs even if you know how it feels to have a penis.

I wish I could be a girl for a while so I’d understand how it feels

Maybe you should explore this a bit more. You can try it as a kink or just in general, depending on how you feel.

and a little bit jelly

Naaww that wasn’t my intention :c

I can’t wait to get to intense fully body waves from anal play

It took me some time. I’ve been doing it for many years, but to be honest I noticed that it wasn’t the amount of time that made it feel amazing, it was me finally being able to actually relax and accept that it’s okay to do it and to feel good and to be myself.

Please stand by for more updates!

Definitely looking forward to them! <3

I’ll be saying things partly by intuition and partly by my own limited research and experiences, so keep that in mind.

‘post-nut clarity,’ which is sudden disgust to the erotic materials

This feeling does have a physical cause which is short lived, but it might be similar to pain tolerance in the sense that depending on how a person is mentally prepared, it might not bother them. Plenty of people don’t seem to be affected by that, as they’re able to continue sexual activities right after orgasm. It seems to be mostly mindset.

I think of this kink as being more male-based.

I don’t think it is. I think it’s just the typical problem of females preferring not to share online, otherwise they get bombarded by creeps. There’s also the subreddit r/EdgingTalk which is mostly females. Sure, some probably are bots and many probably trying to sell OnlyFans or something, but I’ve met enough people that I’m sure with most sexual activities, genders are closer to each other than they think.

going without orgasms is like going without food - your appetite for everything increases. I don’t believe that.

I also don’t believe it. Food is needed for survival of an individual, sex isn’t, so comparing them is not a good approach I feel like. It’s similar to how people try to use water as an analogy to electricity, but the analogy pretty quickly breaks down, because they’re not the same.

Does it simply create more general sexual drive

I think it’s hard to summarize what it does to different people. Also there’s intent involved sometimes as you mentioned, which totally changes the experience. A good approach might be to look into the psychology more than the pure physical effects.

When do the effects of orgasm denial start and peak (in days since last orgasm)?

This is probably influenced by exposure to sexual content, amount of sexual thoughts in general in a person and again the intent of the person. Some people might feel the effects very early just because they were stimulating themselves either physically or psychologically very intensely from the start.

It sounds like your sexuality is expanded overall (like multi-dimensionally)

That’s such an interesting way to say it, haven’t thought of it that way before. Now you got me thinking. 😅