I (32m) have been single my whole life … cus women suck.

I think I figured out why you’re single.

You might have had shitty experiences with some particular women, but generalizing that to other women is bad for both women in general and you.

Yeah bro after taking a peek at your profile, it’s your attitude. You view women as a means to an end (getting laid) and not as a group of varying individuals. You deflect any valid criticism with ad hominem attacks. You focus on what you can do to be more attractive externally via “not makeup because you’re a male” rather than shifting any focus to the underlying reason that you can only get laid if money is involved.

Stop viewing women as “females” and acting like they are a homogenous group that you can “figure out”. They are individuals, and to be successful with any woman, you need to take the time to understand what that woman is looking for and decide if you are capable of providing it.

Women are as different as men are.
You may still meet someone who is right for you.
But you probably need to adjust your attitude.

I remember you from several months ago. I see from this post, you’ve not taken onboard any of the help and advice from last time.

Either that, or this is just a trolling account you turn to every now and again when you’re bored.

with the exception of two brief situationships I was in cus women suck.

This is part of the problem. You’re blaming an entire gender because you ended up in situationships.

Even if those two women are 100% at fault, you’re not just blaming women, but saying that all women “suck”.

women don’t wanna be talked to for more than small talk

This is part of the problem. Why are you talking “to” women and not “with” them? What do these two different phrases (“talking to” and “talking with”) look like? There’s a huge difference.

Plus getting out is anxiety provoking

This is part of the problem. It’s natural for some people to have anxiety. If you have the means, see if this can be treated by a specialist.

34M here - just got dumped after a 9-year relationship about two months ago.

Why? Well, multiple reasons. In short: the love just died. Everything was “fine,” but neither of us was particularly happy. We didn’t have that much in common to begin with. Communication was good, and there wasn’t really any one specific event that caused the breakup. I’d say the two biggest factors were excessive weed use - for both of us - which made things feel “fine” despite the spark being gone, along my lifelong porn addiction, which eventually killed my interest in sex entirely and distorted my sense in what kind of women I find attractive. That also made her feel undesirable herself which didn’t help.

I didn’t put enough effort into the relationship and started taking her for granted. I think there was a bit of self-sabotage involved too - deep down I knew that if I didn’t change, this would be the outcome, yet I kept doing it anyway. Maybe I was subconsciously hoping she’d end it because I didn’t have the guts to.

Right now, I just feel numb. I don’t like being alone, but at least I don’t have to worry about being abandoned. I’m trying to take this time to reflect on my life and figure out what’s next. Honestly, in a perfect world, I’d love to find a caring, asexual woman - someone with whom I’d never have to worry about sex again.

Dating is an attempt to find your best friend who you just so happen to be sexually attracted to. The important part is friendship. Adjacent to this is the fact that you have to be friends with yourself too. You stand literally zero chance at this if you are self-loathing, lack self-esteem, hold hate in your heart for yourself/others.

If you aren’t genuinely looking for your best friend when attempting to date then you will always be miserable. Don’t even think about sex, let that come later huehue.

I’m not going to bother looking through your post history or anything, but yeah based on what you’ve said here you have a lot of work to do on yourself. My advice is to try and make the right decisions EVERY DAY. Be the best form of yourself, the most likeable version, even if you don’t feel like doing that. You will eventually become that.

Way to generalise. Your attitude is probably a downer for everyone.

Roughly your age. All my life. Because I my family was poor and moved around alot so I never had the opportunity to develop passions or intrests and was always lagging behind everyone in life. Now that severe depression has manifested itself as constant part of my life, there is no chance for me to ever have a healthy fulfilling relationship without dragging the other person down with me. So I just stay at arms length with everybody.
Also at my age, if heaven’s forbid there is still somebody who’s also single without kids, then just like me, there’s a good (bad) reason for it.

At least I don’t end up as one of those 40 something year old steering head first into their 3rd divorce. I probably won’t even end up as a 40 something year old, period.

PS: I also thought I hated women, but in reality I hated myself - women were just a constant reminder of that. Realistically, I have so little interaction with women, that I have no real reason to have any opinion on them at all.

A few months but that’s due to mental health, mainly body dysmorphia. Women don’t suck they are great. If you think they do maybe try men?

I have not been single for over 25 years, but before that I was single mostly for over 25 years.

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I (25M) have been single my entire life because I am very boring as a person.

Always, because I’ve never tried not to be, because I don’t know, let’s just go with very low self esteem