

Fucking depressing, and totally accurate
Humans just aren’t actually good. We’re capable of amazing things, and also great cruelty
We’re right in the middle. The scales tip in whatever direction circumstances dictate. It’s quite something, especially because we all want to b the the “good guy”. We’re just not wired that way
Not in the slightest
My woman and I enjoy kink immensely, and she enjoys pain, and being stretched to her limits, but it’s never “punishment”
It’s not about me having power over her at all.
Anyone who really understands kink knows that the locus of control is with the sub anyway
We just enjoy the kind of sex we enjoy, without worrying about how to label it
I don’t “punish” her, she’s never going to “punish” me, neither of us are subby at all. That’s not how our dynamic works
But jeebus, she puts herself through some shit in the throes of passion…