If you don’t get this one, well…I don’t really blame you 😆
Artist is 5-ish Art

  • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
    19·
    3 days ago
    Explanation/interpretation

    From my understanding, this is supposed to show lubricating a cock with your mouth (tongue on spiral) and then anal sex (pairing spiral with a peach).

    How do I know this? Don’t ask

    • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      35·
      3 days ago

      I think you’re right that it’s anal in this case, due to the uh… let’s say markings on the peach emoji, but sometimes peaches get associated with vaginal sex as well.

      also idk maybe my ass is just tight but this is my PSA: please use lube when doing anal. No, despite this cute meme, spit or saliva does not count. Treat your bottom well, get a nice water-based lubricant, and always use a lil more than you think you’ll need.

      • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
        19·
        3 days ago

        I have something to say about this…

        • spit or saliva does not count

          • Skill issue, saliva is my absolute favorite type of lube 😂 /s
            Please for the love of god, use lube people 🙏
            I recommend oil-based ones, they don’t dry out as easily as water-based ones. I personally recommend coconut oil. Smells nice :3
            Don’t use oil with latex condoms or silicone toys tho!
        • Absolutely go overboard with it. If it’s almost enough lube, you need more lol. Especially if you’re not very experienced. Never be afraid to reapply lube mid-round.
        • Go slow, don’t force anything. Don’t try to replicate porn.
        • Practice makes perfect! Plugs, smaller toys, training up to the size of your partner. Muscles need training and that’s true in this context as well. Don’t hurt yourself!
        • Try different angles and positions! It’s fun :3

        • Treat your bottom well

          • Everyone should be doing this, always :3
        • bottleofchips@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          3·
          2 days ago

          Just to say definitely don’t use oil with any condoms, but it’s completely safe to use oil based lube with platinum cure silicone, glass and metal toys - but not with any other material. And don’t use silicone based lube with any silicone toys. If you’re not certain what it’s made of use water based lube, don’t want plastic chemicals leeching out up your butt. Or anywhere.

          • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
            3·
            2 days ago

            I have strong feelings about sex toy materials…

            For anyone out there with PVC toys…fucking DON’T
            Use anything else. Metal, glass, silicone…NEVER PVC. It’s literally the worst material, ever. IIRC it’s toxic, it’s porous (bacteria hide in the tiny little pores), you can’t even sanitize it properly, because it can’t withstand high temperatures, so you can’t boil it, sometimes it just straight up melts for no reason and it’s not even that cheap! Get literally anything else!

            Fuck PVC sex toys. Fuck the companies making them (I’m looking at you, Doc Johnson)

      • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
        11·
        3 days ago

        I would say yes…if you have enough experience and training.

        And if you go beyond that and you’re really a masochist, you can even do it without any lube at all 😂 /s
        Please don’t tho. You need lots of training to get to that point and you’ll just hurt yourself. Even with spit, it dries out so quickly that you’re practically doing it dry…

        NSFW, TMI

        Also, from the few times I managed to convince my bf to do it without lube, he said it hurt him more than it did me in the end, so there’s also that fact 😂

        Please…don’t use saliva. There’s no benefit (kinda hot tho). Just use normal lube and use lots of it ♥️

        • LostCarcosan@lemmy.todayEnglish
          5·
          3 days ago

          Can confirm going in dry can be painful for the giver as well.

          It’s not a place meant originally to have a penis inside it and skin that is not perfectly dry can be kind of grippy

          • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
            1·
            2 days ago

            It’s not a place meant originally to have a penis inside it

            Sounds like another skill issue. Here, we repurpose our orifices and use them for stuff they were never meant to be used for 😂 /s

            You’re totally right tho. Grippy is absolutely the correct word here.

        • u/lukmly013 💾 (lemmy.sdf.org)English
          3·
          2 days ago

          he said it hurt him more than it did me

          I am too lazy to look up the difference in pain receptors (or lack thereof) up there, but I know internal hemorrhoids can simply be tied off, cutting blood supply, and having them fall off without (much) pain.

          So it doesn’t mean you weren’t receiving any damage.

          • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
            2·
            2 days ago

            True…and this is dumb of me, but I don’t really care. To me, it’s super hot, it feels amazing and I just kinda love it 😆

            I just wish anal wasn’t my only choice 😭
            Damn this pre-op body…

        • n0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
          3·
          3 days ago

          I have plenty of lube, I was just wondering. I think I tried dildo without lube once, but usually are way too scared. I mean, it can even hurt with lube

    • Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      25·
      3 days ago

      Oral before regular sex?! I’ve been doing that exclusively for decades and never had a UTI from that. Maybe if you’re sensitive to UTIs, but that generally should never happen if you’re not.

      • America@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        3·
        3 days ago

        I am, personally. Dropping it from “maybe” to “practically 0 chance” appreciably improves my year

        • Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
          3·
          2 days ago

          That’s orally totally fair! (Autocorrect hit that one and I couldn’t take it out)

          I would be much more hesitant if I experienced that, I’m so sorry you have to deal with that D: In my experience, my partners have gone from mouth to V, mouth to A, kissing, whatever and it hasn’t been an issue. The only thing I (and luckily all of my partners I’ve ever been with) are a very hard “no” on are things going IN a butt then touching anything else without being washed thoroughly.

          • America@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            1·
            2 days ago

            That sounds significantly less stressful. It’s unequivocally rare to have to take as many precautions, but that’s how it goes. Different strokes. Or, I guess, different order of operations.