• CupcakeOfSpice [she/her, fae/faer]@hexbear.net
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    2 days ago

    Okay, so, she said she needed a massage, which he took as an invitation. Maybe that’s an innocent enough misunderstanding (I’m pretty dense, so it’d take a lot more to get me to come over) but then she explicitly told him she didn’t mean that or want that. Also, even if she had meant that, but later changed her mind, it would still be assault on his part! I don’t see any world where that’s not what happened here.

    • Right, she followed up with “do not come over” and he did anyway. At that point it doesn’t matter what she said before she explicitly said “do not come over”. To drag out this “detail” under these conditions is to hold water for removeds and nothing else. Ryan Grim and Drop Site’s twitter replies on these posts had people taking this news exactly as you would expect and thanking them for their “reporting”. Disgusting.

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    She told him to not fucking come over. Even if this was somehow relevant, this doesn’t make him look any better, if anything it makes him look worse. This is such a baffling hill to die on.

  • Salah [ey/em]@hexbear.net
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    That is so gross. The message that she wanted her glutes massaged is completely irrelevant to the story of her SA, and they would only bring it up like this if they think it somehow changes the narrative.

    It’s similar to people who ask what a victim was wearing before an assault.

    • It’s similar to people who ask what a victim was wearing before an assault.

      Its so similar that when I heard this “key detail” the MSM “neglected” to reveal to the public, it struck me as exactly the same as asking “What were you wearing?” Shit, even the detail of “Her door was unlocked” ALSO rings in the same tone as that question. Its utterly ridiculous for Drop Site, Breaking Points, and Ryan Grim to try and characterize it in any other way.