As you’re using the terms being thrown around lately, I’ll assume you just spit out what you hear without actual knowledge. There is no such thing as biological man or woman. There are sexes but even that isn’t binary, it’s a spectrum with many outliers that have sex disorders. Additionally, chromosomes does not equal phenotype. There are men out there with XX and women with a Y chromosome. Additionally, sex characteristics and phenotype are not just based on chromosomes; it is complex and varied. Trans people have the same variations as cis people, but their brains exhibit similar traits as their cis counterparts, while being in a body that exhibits similar sex characteristics as those on the opposing end of the spectrum. This is where the misalignment and dysphoria comes from. I’m obviously making something far more complex simplified.

There it is! Just a transphobe hiding behind ‘innocent’ questions. Oh boy do I got an easy solution for you

I’m a woman and I’ll even agree with you women should be able to make private spaces that let in only who the women inside choose - that’s not how public restrooms work however. I have no particular expectations when using a restroom beyond having a private stall to use for my self and others and that others mind their own business unless it’s to say something nice or helpful to someone else, I don’t actually care what their genitals, DNA, way of dress or body look like in anyway just that they follow bathroom decorum. If all bathrooms were just private ceiling to floor with doors that don’t have cracks around them and anyone was allowed to use them I think that would be ideal and help everyone because bathroom usage could be spread among a larger number of stalls, likely shorten the route to a bathroom if you don’t have to go searching for your gender and I say this as a person who use to use portable oxygen finding a toilet only for men when I was at my most sick knowing I had to dedicate more of my very limited energy to tracking down a woman’s bathroom sucked.

You’re literally being ableist towards people like me, I have cystic fibrosis and was born disabled, because you think you can speak for women as a whole, don’t put words in women’s mouths. If you are a woman and you feel that way then speak for yourself don’t involve the rest of us, thanks.

You ever stop to consider that maybe you don’t pass as your chosen gender to someone else? Let people use the public restrooms they want. Harassment and rape are crimes, police that all you want, but we don’t need idiots getting bent out of shape and causing confrontations in restrooms because they believe they know better than the individuals who choose to present as a gender.

I’m affected by it in the here and now, on a daily basis, by the policies that are implemented by fearful morons. Not by some imaginary “almost raped!!” nonsense that you’re bringing into it. You and people who think like you are the oppressors, not the oppressed.

To think that when I say “let’s use actual signage” you cry rape is fucking ludicrous. Get the fuck out of here with these obviously disingenuous arguments.

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