Authoritative, demanding, muscular, degrading, older, stronger, rougher, nastier, bigger, brutish, insistent. There are so many versions of domination that appeal to our animal instincts.

Which version though of this classic fantasy is it that really turns you feral and makes you crave to submit? I’m talking about both the characteristics of your fantasy Dom and the way they use them…

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    To start, there has to be mutual attraction, and the person has to demonstrate with their actions that they truly enjoy being in control to bring out submissive tendencies in me. That can mean not being afraid to tell me what they want out of fear that it will turn me off, escalating when there is sexual tension, and guiding me into what they want me to do without having to ask. I can’t enjoy it if it’s being done to satisfy my fantasy.

    There are certain tones of voice or mannerisms in speaking which excite me very much but are hard to describe. One is slightly mocking, another is almost clinical but with the slightest hint of amusement or arousal. 🫠

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    7 days ago

    What makes me crave to submit? Its often a combination of confidence and eloquence. Someone who can stop a discussion with one well placed sentence. That can really ignite a sudden fire in me. Its someone who can go deeper in conversations and pick up on the details, someone who is able to change my views and opinions by making well rounded arguments.

    Its the moment in a convo, i slant my eyes and say… “i have to think about that” (cause right now my pussy is on fire and i can only think about climbing your dick)

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        Thank you 😄

        I love making the pictures, mostly before masturbating lol. When the interior of my house is finished, im probably gonna make a picture tour with all the light effects and glow in the dark art featured. I shouldnt glaze my own cake but damn its starting to look like i imagined. So much fun.

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      6 days ago

      I foolishly missed including the importance of intelligence, attentiveness and a sharp wit in my post. The kind of person who can make time stop by revealing a new and unexpected perspective.

      I like your juxtaposition between the intellectual and the absolutely animalistic!

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      6 days ago

      This is really hot. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It’s always nice to get insight from sexy woman who we all want to fuck

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    Well, if someone really craves me, I will just fold and let them use me as a toy for a while. It feels so good to know that someone “owns” you at the moment, for them to use you for their own pleasure.

    So, I really like to please, and there is that. I do like rough and wild fucking too, but I would play dom if needed (ironicaly to please), and I am really bad at that.

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    when a guy’s genuinely kind tbh. and doesnt pick up on my clues even though i know he’s interested just dumb. at a certain point its like please stop trying and let me suck your cock lol

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      And how forward will you be in those situations? Do you gently try to ensure they realise you want their cock in you so they’ll make their move, or are you more likely to just back your ass up against their crotch and grind it so they can be in no doubt about what you want to do with them?

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    Rimming. Just a couple of well placed licks and I melt into the bed, ready to be taken in any way.

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    As a guy, the GF is on her back, legs in the air, her ankles in my ears. She is totally CONSENTUALLY pinned and spread wide eagle begging to be pounded

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    Strong, playful, and feminine women. I love me a femme fatale looking at me like a cat with a mouse, but really any combination of those traits gets me weak and obedient. It really comes back to knowing she’s going to have fun with my submission.

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    Fucking nothing.

    I hate being told what to do and that extends to the bedroom.

    I also don’t care for controlling other people. It’s a lot of fucking effort.

    Power dynamics are not sexy imo.