Too obvious to be funny, but i still wanted to draw a shitpost.

  • Redcat [he/him]
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    11 months ago

    You drive others deeper into their position

    You say that like they haven’t held that position through multiple farcical wars.

    I’m not the one driving them deeper into their position. They have chosen to do so themselves. Which is why they are more concerned about my civility than the millions starved and killed in the name of the rules based international order.

    • Doug [he/him]
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      211 months ago

      they are more concerned about my civility than the millions starved and killed in the name of the rules based international order.

      You say that like your know their level of concern or activity in regards to those.

      Consider someone starting to consider view points beyond how they were raised. Are they more or less likely to go toward someone with inflammatory rhetoric? The concept of a pipeline is hardly a new one.

      Believe it or not the world isn’t divisible into two camps. Why would you not encourage people to flow towards a direction that should be inviting?

      • silent_water [she/her]
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        1411 months ago

        Consider someone starting to consider view points beyond how they were raised.

        unironically, the bullying takes work. many of the people on this website are here because they got pressured for bad takes, got shocked and confused, and stuck around to learn more. others went wow those commies are funny and ended up doing the reading. civility only protects the status quo. we live in a fucked up world and pretending it’s not by masking how fucked up it is that people defend that status quo serves absolutely no one but the powerful. any tool that breaks people away from that reflexive defensive posture towards extant power is only an immeasurable good.

        • Doug [he/him]
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          111 months ago

          So if it breaks one person away but twenty more say they knew they were right about all them and refuse to ever attempt to engage in discussion again, that’s good?

          Yeah, it’s fucked. We have people insisting that trans people are grooming kids while preachers keep getting arrested for actually doing far more than the trans folks are even accused of. But if you throw a whole lot of the country into the deep end of the pool they’ll just drown while they take all the lifeguards down with them. But if you can let them dip their toes in the shallow end then you may find them swimming laps before you realize.

          • silent_water [she/her]
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            1411 months ago

            queer people started getting rights and acceptance after they started throwing bricks, not before. rights are taken, never granted. the genocidal policies will succeed in their project if they are not met forcefully. as a trans person, you can fuck all the way off - I will not be polite and civil with people who think my right to exist is open to debate. to accept the premise and engage in debate denies my own humanity. I exist, the people I love exist, and we will fight to the grave anyone who denies it. and I abso-fucking-lutely do not give a shit about the feelings of debatelords.

            • Doug [he/him]
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              111 months ago

              There’s a huge gap between people who think your right to exist is open to debate and a random person on the internet who doesn’t know what the position of the instance is.

              I pointed out that the overly polite statement in the comic is not reflective of reality and plenty of you are doing a great job of demonstrating that.

                • Doug [he/him]
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                  111 months ago

                  Plenty of my patience has been met with thrown vitriol and asshole behavior in here too. I’ve tried to respond in the way I’ve been met. I’m not perfect and I’m sure I’ve failed in places but I’m also out here by myself.

                  • marx_mentat [he/him, comrade/them]
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                    811 months ago

                    I think the vast majority here are also responding to you in the way they feel they’ve been met as well. I can empathize with the frustration and defensiveness of being alone.

      • Redcat [he/him]
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        1311 months ago

        You say that like your know their level of concern or activity in regards to those.

        it’s self evident, given the issues they raise

        • Doug [he/him]
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          111 months ago

          Being able to tell the concerns of a person based off limited interactions over the Internet is a skill the world has never observed.

          Being willing to assume you know such things, however, is incredibly common

          • Redcat [he/him]
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            11 months ago

            person posts about the civility of people complaining about NATO led mass murders

            you can’t just conclude they care more about civility than NATO’s warmongering

            thats a very lemmy.midwest thing to say

            • Doug [he/him]
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              111 months ago

              You’re the second person to mention NATO. Where have I said anything about anything with NATO?

              • Redcat [he/him]
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                11 months ago

                discusses NATO’s wars

                actually, where have i said anything about NATO?

                so you didn’t connect the dots when they talk about the international community or the coalition of the willing?

                thats why people don’t care to be civil to supporters. that and the odds they live in one the countries being attacked.

                • Doug [he/him]
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                  111 months ago

                  Where have I discussed NATO’s wars? Seriously

                  It’s been all day and my complaint is still misrepresentation.

            • Doug [he/him]
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              111 months ago

              I’m very aware that it, like any form of trolling, is utilized as an excuse when it’s not what’s happened.

              Which is not to say that it doesn’t happen. False positives and false negatives are as much a reality as the thing itself.