• answersplease77@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    Im the opposite of this meme. Im a “hetro” who tried desperately to hit on and hook up with every gay person I’ve known in my life, but they all turn me down . l dont do this anymore im old and broke now lol

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    1 day ago

    I love that explanation that goes “homophobic men are worried that gay men will treat them like homophobic men treat women.”

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      8 hours ago

      i prefer the explanation that goes men have been in locker rooms and heard what shit other men said in grade school. i’d choose the bear too.

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          i’m older xenniel, so like i heard it from the lads born in the 70s but didn’t repeat it. telling them to knock it off just made you a target so after the first few times you keep your head down.

          kind of like here, now that i notice.

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    Hetero myself, but hung around lots of gay dudes for a few years. Them hitting on me all the time. I realized its not that different from a woman you are not interested in hitting on you. Just politely turn them down and move on.

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        Legion. Its a Marvel show but not cnnected to anything else, its weird as fuck but also amazing if you like weird as fuck things.

        Essentially, a super powerful psychic mutant is maybe schizophrenic and/or actually psychotic, as the core plot. Half the show literally takesplace inside people’s heads, which is part of what makes it so trippy.