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        • toynbee@lemmy.world
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          In the movie, the main character, his love interest and an unassociated but still primary character declare that ATM is not okay.

          Later in the movie, the tertiary character I mentioned is not present and the other two are flirting heavily. The female love interest says “in the heat of the moment, sometimes ATM is okay.” (I might be paraphrasing, it’s been a lot of years since I saw movie, but the sentiment is correct.) The other character then shows up and shames her.

          Consent is hugely important. Even stuff like CNC very heavily depends on consent - and should. However, in the movie, I don’t think it’s a concept being challenged.

          However, in case anything I’ve said implies otherwise … No means no and begging until you get a yes is not a yes.

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      So do European ATMs? I assume it works the same way - if the ATM is “in network” it’s free. Otherwise there’s a charge.

      These days you can get checking accounts which refund ATM fees, but they are usually the higher end ones which have deposit minimums.

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        Except I have never paid a fee for using the atm in my life, no matter which bank the atm was located at. Maybe some features like depositing are only possible in your own bank’s atm

    • u/lukmly013 💾 (lemmy.sdf.org)
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      Same for banks in Slovakia, but you typically have monthly packages that will include unlimited withdrawals. Say, €7/month.

      But it’s all over the place.

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      9 hours ago

      Nothing is free really.

      The only withdrawal fees i’ve seen are at ATMs not provided by your bank or not in your bank’s network.

      If I go into a convenience store, it’s gonna be $2-$4 fee for the ATM. It’s the only reason why they have ATMs.

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        6 hours ago

        Capital one is in network with a lot of those store and gas station ATMs (allpoint and moneypass)

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      Mine also has one but mainly because most ATMs are from the “sparkassen” and the one i use has relativly rare “raiffeisen” ATMs

      Its a bit like two systemsthat do the same

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        The little town in Oö where I recently lived for a year had one of each, and when I eventually realised that Sparkasse had no fees I never went in a Raiffeisen again.

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    Fuck an ATM fee. I keep some money in a Federal Credit Union, then I just look for FCU ATMs which allow you to withdraw without fees, regardless of which bank owns the ATM. FCU density seems regional though so this likely doesn’t work a lot of places, YMMV

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      I once dated a girl who was with a bank that paid you back any fees incurred at any ATM.

      I don’t really remember the details, but I think that bank was super local or had restricted membership or something like that. Still an impressive offer, though.