I want to hear all about the stuff you either don’t approve of or don’t enjoy, and why that’s the case :) Happy Sunday
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For me scat. Total turn off. Or blood play.
I do like peeing involved sometimes though. That’s pretty hot.
Anything with incest influences. Instant turn off.
“Incest: it’s hot as long as it’s someone else’s family doing it”
It is bizarre how prevalent the tangentially incestuous stuff is (‘mommy’ and ‘daddy’), and also how much people joke about it. I guess humans can follow herd behaviour even when it comes to sex
Scat, accidentally stumbled on it and I’m never trying that again
I’ll have nothing to do with feces, blood or pain( giving or receiving)
Aside from the usual two, diaper stuff turns me off super fast. No thanks!
yeah diaper stuff just creeps me out. I want an adult >_<
I want an adult close to my age, but also immature like me (into Pokemon, non-sexualy).
I actually really really really dislike age gap relationships. There were two separate instances where a woman told me she liked me but wanted to keep dating her much older boyfriend because he could simply provide more stuff. I’ve been called all kinds of names for not liking age gaps, but I’m not backing down from this.
That’s fair. Iirc, I was actually interested in a 40 year old, even though she was quite older than me, because eh, everyone deserves a chance? But then I remembered I’m an emotional wreck, so I decided not to pursue.
But I also have my date limit at about 25 minimum (for dating) and 22 for fun butt stuff (saying sex gets boring). I still find those kind of icky, but you have to engage with someone. I don’t think I would do anything with younger people besides give advice, NSFW memes, or praise.
So ironicaly enough, someone 10 years older said they would not date someone 10 years younger, and I was like “what do they got that I don’t”, even though I was not even interested in them.
So, it does not go both ways I guess.
For what it’s worth, I have dated with significant age gaps in both directions. It becomes difficult simply because you’re in different places in your lives. I would recommend, for actual relationships, to continue doing what you’re doing and date roughly the same age.
I’m just messing around, had a really long asexual phase. Would be a shame to get committed now lol.
Hmm fair enough. I’m still a youngish virgin (23) and I’m not going to have sex with anyone unless she at least tries to do an LTR. I will straight up refuse a woman if she’s not between 21 and 25 inclusive.
CNC. Hot when done to you, but how tf am I supposed to ever feel comfortable playing it out with someone? I have to think if they are actually into it all the time, have to act in a way that I find kind of icky, so I could never do propper CNC.
SCAT/PISS. Maybe I could tolerate piss, but SCAT? No no no, especially the story where someone’s wive eagerly waited, mouth open, to eat their shit. I can’t even poop with someone in the same room.
Anything that’s Zoophilia, Necrophilia, Pedophilia, actually non-consensual.
Anything that goes too far (beating someone, burning them, like unfuck yourself).
The gay/trans stuff, I thought about it…just can’t. I don’t think I would enjoy it at all, still jelous of people who can.
Actual vore. Like, no, I don’t want to burn to death in acid/suffocate on acid. I don’t want whatever fever dream got me into this fetish to actually happen. But I really DO want some light-bites on me, so please do~. And also, being pinned, licked, told I taste good, milked like a Hoocow! Oh yeaah…eat me!
What about a free use situation? Not quite CNC, but kind of?
I could arrange for a safeword upfront. Knowing myself, I’d set up a tap out system too, attention disorder and all.
Yeah, freeuse is doable, you can talk a lot out upfront.
Weird one for me because I’m pretty kinky but I do not like butt stuff. No interest and I don’t get the appeal.
Same here. It turns me off so much. Even watching it.
I do try toys sometimes but it didn’t really work either. I desensitise too quickly.
Where exactly on the butt does it go from sexy to not sexy?
Anything involving the anus or beyond is a no for me. Butt cheeks are fine.
As soon as my penis is involved.
No to be real though, the outside of the butt is sexy, all of it, but the inside is not. The threshold of the butt is quite literally the threshold between sexy and unsexy territory.
What’s the “inside” of the butt? On a scale of ‘where the sun don’t shine while clenching cheeks’ to ‘where its water tight’?
Any what part of someone’s body can get how close?
Would you do a butt job? Like where you’re hotdogging your penis between their cheeks? You’d be lubed up but you wouldn’t actually be entering the anus, you’d be rubbing against it orthogonal to the hole.
Sure
anal is usually a one and done. Try it once. It’s definitely different
Anything that involves a third person. If I ever have sex with someone I want it to stay between the two of us. I don’t want polyamory, I don’t want threesome, I don’t want cuckhold stuff, etc.
Yeah, I would not 100% exclude it, but it is distracting, and if a male friend who I was not that good with, were just watching me, I would get performance anxiety, stiffle moans, so on.
Ooh I love all those things very much ❤️ I love having sex with other people around and sharing the pleasure. But it’s good to know your limits!
I’m pretty poly oriented but I often have trouble finding even one partner so that’s more the problem right now. I’ve had threesomes though.
In terms of stuff other people do like? I am so turned off by strap ons. I don’t disapprove, do what you want, just not with me or where I can see it.
Disapprove of anything truly coercive with anyone not into it - it’s possible to find someone into what you want, probably no matter what you want there is someone for you. As someone else on here said “make swingers into friends, don’t try to turn friends into swingers.” If you are into something unusual make it a primary filter.
Exactly
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Sounding gives me a visceral shudder every time I think about it. I don’t want to see it. I don’t want to do it. I don’t want to think about it. I don’t have any traumatic experience or interesting story behind it, I just hate it.
Honestly anything involving the urethra I’d avoid. That’s the hole I piss out of and I don’t want to mess it up. People say the same thing about the anus (I am a big anus fan), but the urethra is a lot more delicate than the anus.
It’s definitely safe if you take proper care to sterilize your equipment and environment. Also as a fellow butt enjoyer I’d honestly say it’s got similar risks to butt stuff. It’s just ickier.
Yeah i hate thst one too. Maybe my least favourite
Careful, we are not allowed to dunk on other’s fetishes.
We must be respectful.
I’m absolutely not into sounding, but one of my chastity cages came with a small sound, so I tried it.
A lot less bad than I expected. Still don’t like it, but yeah.
I know for flat cages, like you’re talking about, the sound rod is fairly small and just there to keep everything anchored, but that’s still a big no from me dawg.
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Aside from the more extreme stuff… Probably balloon popping. I hate loud noises.
This one time we were showering before fucking. It was a big shower. And she peed in it during hour shower session. Kinda crude but it was hot
