So I have these two friends: a non-binary person I’ll call “A” and a girl a few years older who I’ll call “Belinda”.
A cannot go to school because of their mental health, so they asked me to arrange dates we could all hang out. However, either Belinda keeps forgetting when I tell her what A asked her to do, I forget to ask her if she’s free, or she’s not free,
I think A is now upset with me and thinks I’m a bad friend for not doing what they want. AITA for this? I try but sometimes she’s busy or I forget. :(
Do you guys not have a group text going? Wouldn’t that solve this problem?
Sadly no, she doesn’t have a phone and her tablet broke so I can’t use her home email
Wrong account lol
Same name but in English. Interesting.
Same writing style and posting theme too
It’s my alt lol
Im just using my aly
Alt
It’s a tough time of year, and coordinating more than one person seems a lot harder than it used to be. Be good to yourself and each other.
No. It’s not your job to arrange someone else’s schedule. If you give it an honest effort, even if it doesn’t work out, people should at least appreciate that you tried. If this is so important to your friend “A”, they could do it themselves.
a probably wants a servant, not a companion type of friend
You’re filling in an incredible amount of information. How in the world can you reasonably extrapolate that from a couple of paragraphs and only one side of the story?
Occam’s razor says that A is just overly needy and their lack of any communication device is impeding their ability to maintain interpersonal relationships. Jumping straight to “THEY WANT A SLAVE INSTEAD OF A FRIEND!” is such a huge jump I can’t believe it was genuinely suggested.
i think they’re using op
I think they were just in a pissy mood
A was all like “I want you to be better at this”
A sounds like an A hole. Mental health is not an excuse to use people, let alone talk to you like that.
