• @SteveDinn@lemmy.ca
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    36 hours ago

    I guess I’ll never know what the kids are saying ever again because there’s no way I’m installing either of those apps.

  • GHiLA
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    810 hours ago

    My family has a signal group. I started it two years ago.

    Almost no one pays any attention to it, unless they accidentally open the app once a month, but they’re all still there and can be spoken to.

    I put a PSA out a month ago that I’ll no longer respond on Facebook Messenger or SMS after the turn of the year. Tough shit. There was some groaning but, if there’s no other way, either use Signal or invest in a Pigeon coop and get training.

    • @prof_wafflez@lemmy.world
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      There was some groaning but, if there’s no other way, either use Signal or invest in a Pigeon coop and get training.

      Any particular reason you are abandoning SMS? Any particular reason for the strict rule?

      • GHiLA
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        310 hours ago

        RCS ain’t universal. I only have it with some iPhone users and the rare Pixel.

        If it’s what’s for dinner, I don’t care. Musk can know I had some hamburger steak.

        If it’s the code to your tablet, mom, ask on Signal.

      • @kautau@lemmy.world
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        1022 hours ago

        “In the beginning:”

        Facebook was a MySpace alternative for “academics” (college students / alums) instead of teens.

        LinkedIn was a MySpace alternative for “professionals” instead of teens.

        Forums were an evolution of BBSs that predated “social” media because it wasn’t you, it was an avatar, a fake persona you created rather than “first name,” “last name.”

        ICQ and Skype were purely chat platforms, competing in a completely different space.

        I have no idea what point this rant is trying to make but all the comparisons between services are way off base.

        • @rottingleaf@lemmy.world
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          but all the comparisons between services are way off base.

          My experience in Russia. No, they are not off base. Just naturally there are different PoVs and for you it may be something entirely else. You can think about that before saying something is wrong.

          MySpace

          Say, I’m not sure many people even knew of that where I am.

          Forums were an evolution of BBSs that predated “social” media because it wasn’t you, it was an avatar, a fake persona you created rather than “first name,” “last name.”

          People using real names in the Web were the weird ones, but it was normal to meet IRL those you know via forums.

          I have no idea what point this rant is trying to make

          Your failure, not mine.

  • Maeve
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    821 day ago

    Because Whatsapp is totally not owned by FB.

    • @lemmylommy@lemmy.world
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      571 day ago

      It’s not about why owns it. It’s about where young people can be without getting bothered by their parents and other old people.

      • @Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world
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        211 day ago

        I’m 41…you telling me the kids today don’t think of me as the greatest person who ever existed??? Pssshhh that’s malarkey! I won’t hear of it! EVERYONE thinks I’m the greatest person who ever existed! My lexicon includes words like “malarkey” and “lexicon”! Kids think that’s cool right???

      • @rottingleaf@lemmy.world
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        11 day ago

        That’s about phone number requirement for signup. Not about platforms.

        OK. Life is life.

        I’ve just had a traumatic memory of one young person, a girl (with possibly undiagnosed ASPD), from 13 years ago.

        Feel nausea and want to throw up every time thinking about that kind of places, dynamics, emotions.

  • @michael_palmer
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    401 day ago

    It’s pretty clear. Facebook is now full of crap created by artificial intelligence (and not only).

  • Dem Bosain
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    771 day ago

    Where there any teens on Twitter? Last I was there it was full of angry middle-age men.

    • psychOdelic
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      141 day ago

      before musk came it was pretty full, most of them have moved to threads

    • @misk@sopuli.xyz
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      423 hours ago

      Ah, the curse of algorithmic social network. It’s full of angry middle-aged men if you follow those / interact with them. There are / were big communities formed around various pop stars on Twitter and those are quite different demographics.

    • themeatbridge
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      2518 hours ago

      People go where their friends are. Their grandparents are on Facebook.

  • Vanth
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    421 day ago

    That is a weird way of describing it. Teens aren’t “abandoning” FB & X; they never signed up to begin with. And why would that? They are platforms built for and filled with millennials+.

  • cheer
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    261 day ago

    A decade ago is when teens stopped using Facebook, unless they’re counting Instagram in those metrics?

    • @AA5B@lemmy.world
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      110 hours ago

      Look at the graph in the article: it’s the only newsworthy piece. Assuming the numbers are legit, the lines crossed about 6 years ago.

      Of course the x axis not having any labeled points there doesn’t fill me with confidence. Perhaps it’s just two points for each and they drew a straight line

  • kratoz29
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    201 day ago

    Okay? But what does Whatsapp has anything to do with the other? DM?

    I don’t consider WhatsApp social media.

    • @egrets@lemmy.world
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      422 hours ago

      WhatsApp has channels (public feeds centered around topics, a bit like microblogging), communities (groups about a subject, much like Facebook Groups), and updates (temporal video/photo statuses to share with your friends). You might only use it for DM, but it has much bigger aspirations.

  • Obinice
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    111 day ago

    WhatsApp? The instant messenger boomers use on their phones?

    Damn, who saw that coming.

      • @confusedwiseman@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        15 hours ago

        It might be that I’m looking at this from a US perspective. Craig’s list has been a bit rough when I’ve tried it. Scammy and shadier people. I hope you’ve had better experiences here than me.

        I found cash converters out of the UK. Is that correct? It seemed comparable to a pawn shop at first glance.

    • @Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee
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      201 day ago

      That’s just it, Facebook is kinda the default option, and almost everyone has an account there. It’s why so many clubs arrange everything through a Facebook page.

  • @skymtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    61 day ago

    well Facebook still owns them and will own them when they all switch to instagram reels like America wants them to do