I’m thinking about getting a masturbator for the time after my wife has given birth. But I have no idea where to even start. Anyone here using one, and can share some experiences?
I am searching for something that:
- is easy to clean,
- can fit my whole dick such that I can fuck it like a vagina, and
- maybe has some extras like vibration or suction or so.


I’ve heard that those things can cause people to become dependent on them to climax. Not everyone, I’m sure, but I wouldn’t risk it. I’ve been a hands-on man all my life (except for a couple experiments with assistive devices when I was a teenager).
Btw, congrats! You probably won’t have energy enough to masturbate for a while.