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  • some_guytoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldSelf-awareness
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    7 天前

    Stupid mother fuckers (the scientific term) are rarely aware of the negative impact they have on those around them. Case-in-point: some lady at a green light just turned her hazards on and sat there blocking traffic for some unknown reason when we were coming home today. She’s way-too checked out to actually think about the people inconvenienced by her behavior or she’d be too horrified by what others thought to do so. I mean, some people are genuinely uncaring about others, but I think the majority don’t think past their own action rather than being sociopaths. They just aren’t thoughtful people.







  • some_guytoComic Strips@lemmy.worldAll you do is take!
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    10 天前

    I’m so grateful that my mother wasn’t a piece of shit. I mean, she has her faults. She voted for the shitbird three times, thus ending our relationship (I won’t speak to her because of it), but she really tried. She wasn’t abusive. She sucked and piled on baggage from her own bs, but it wasn’t really her fault; she just had shortcomings.

    Meanwhile, I watch bodycam videos on youtube and feel horrible for some children. Thanks, Mom!


  • It has to be a consistent practice for it to work, but it does work. Start each day (or early in the day do this) by thinking of three things for which you’re grateful. They don’t have to be profound. Example:

    1. Got beers with buddy before his family takes a month-long vacay
    2. An app that I like recently released a new version with enhancements and new features
    3. Building mgmt offered some free rent for lease renewals during the same time we’d be renewing anyway

    Try it. It works. But it took a fair amount of time to feel natural and easy, at least for me.


  • some_guytoFuck Cars@lemmy.mlSold my car!
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    10 天前

    Congrats! I got rid of my car after realizing I hadn’t driven in close to a year. I’ve since bought one again because the pan left me badly exposed (lived alone at the time) but it only gets driven rarely.



  • some_guytoLefty Memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comThe human nature alibi
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    11 天前

    From the time of the Natufians, beginning around 13100 BC , up to the Early Bronze Age IIb around 3200 BC, there are only a handful of violent deaths indicated by skeletal remains:

    Guess the Bronze Age Collapse never happened. The Sea Peoples never swept through coastal cities raiding and plundering in the Mediterranean. Egypt and Assyria never dominated their neighbors. All those books I read were wrong. Even in Egyptian tombs, the extensive records of wars are all wrong.

    Listen up. New information. All reports of societies duking it out in ancient history didn’t happen. It’s time to realign our understanding of human nature. War is a modern concept. In fact, I’m gonna go even further and declare that until the USA and our genocidal partner attacked Iran this year, there had never been a war EVER. Tell your friends.





  • Changing where you live can really reverse what you’re describing, but I know that’s not always realistic. I live in the Bay Area and I’m middle-aged. The dating pool is full of people who my values and who like doing stuff I’m into, like going to live music and rocking out. Less than with younger people, but that’s about stamina more than interests.

    If I lived in the midwest, where my family all live, there’d be nothing. Conservative bland bullshit. Dunno where you live, but something to consider.