So, I’m currently dating someone, and it’s my first time dating. I was a kissless virgin before this but I’m not kissless anymore ^^. Anyway, we get along really well, sharing a lot of interests and similar views. They’re a “newer” lefty, but they have a good head on their shoulders and are open to learning. We’re really excited about each other. We’ve talked a lot over voice chat, had three dates so far, and exchange a bit of daily texting. At this point, I’m pretty sure we’re going to become a couple, maybe even for a longer time.

Today is our 4th date, but I do not intend to tell them I love them because I’m not really sure how love feels. I definitely feel attraction, and it seems very mutual. I guess my question is: When do I tell someone I love them, and how do I know when I truly love them?

Im asking because this is literally my 1st time dating and I have never been involved in anything romantic.

  • ButtBidet [he/him]
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    154 months ago

    This is just vibes, but can’t you say something like “I like you” or “I really like you”?

    • Comp4 [she/her]OP
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      4 months ago

      I “think” I have made my attraction to them clear so far and that I think they are a cool person. At very least I told them they are pretty.

      • Othello [none/use name]
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        84 months ago

        you gotta lay it on a lil bit thicker than “pretty”. throw in stunning, lovely, beautiful. complement their eyes and smile.

        • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]
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          84 months ago

          you gotta lay it on a lil bit thicker than “pretty”.

          People really dig when you overthrow the dictatorship of the bourgeoisie for them. Just saying. lenin-heart