ButtBidet [he/him]
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ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netto chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•How could it all go so wrong?English36·11 hours agoI’m old af and I absolutely hid that bait post as soon as I saw it. The person who posted it was absolutely looking for drama.
Edit: I saw the post when it had one comment. I’m sad I didn’t warn hexbears off from the start.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netto chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•Happy Death to Amerikkka Day - Novo General Megathread for the 4th-6th of July 2025English5·15 hours agoI’m not an English teacher, but one thing I never get about education in general and English specifically is the need to push kids to read books that they will absolutely find uninteresting. I really feel like kids are expected to give a lot of unpaid labour, cuz someone said so in some office somewhere.
Not deep, but I’m tired
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•How could explain 'patriarchy serves capitalism' to a liberal? [sorry I'm a n00b]English6·15 hours agoAdmirable
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•How could explain 'patriarchy serves capitalism' to a liberal? [sorry I'm a n00b]English8·15 hours agoI bet you’re already aware that Red Pen did a really good YouTube video on this. Actually it was literally his most recent video that led me to this question.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netto memes@hexbear.net•Being out of town after adopting the use of a bidet is the fucking worst.English7·17 hours agoI’m being unnecessarily ironically snarky in this post. But really, I commiserate with you about everything here being the most terrible version.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netto memes@hexbear.net•Being out of town after adopting the use of a bidet is the fucking worst.English13·17 hours agoWhy didn’t op just install it in every toilet he uses as a public service? smh
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netto chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•Happy Death to Amerikkka Day - Novo General Megathread for the 4th-6th of July 2025English4·19 hours agoTeacher here. Sometimes we put a lot of planning into a unit and resist trashing it when it needs to happen. Possibly she perfected it in 2003 when it was very topical.
Also grade 9 is far too old to spend a unit on 9/11 and not like some skill the students will need in their life. But then again, grade 9 English teachers to this day do a unit on Animal Farm, which arguably is equally pointless.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netto badposting@hexbear.net•abolish the death penalty, except for people who modify their car/motorcycle to make it louderEnglish17·3 days agoNot even badposting now, the reason cops historically ignore this issue is that its often white, chud, and petit bourgeois. If lots of poor black people were modding their bike, there would be public campaigns and mandatory minimum prison sentences.
I was rewatching some sitcoms from the 90s. I was absolutely shocked with the amount of jokes about race and gender. And everything was so damn snarky. People who think that the 90s were chill just forgot the details.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.nettoShit Reactionaries Say@lemmygrad.ml•More TERF propaganda from the Guardian (CW galore of course)English5·3 days agoThe article could pinpoint that Sullivan is a longtime member of an anti-trans group, or that her review was heavily criticised, but they didn’t. Fuck the Guardian, and fuck Terf Island
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netMto vegan@hexbear.net•Ventilation Shutdown Is One of the Cruelest Ways to Kill Animals: The least humane way of culling poultry and pigs has become increasingly common.English20·4 days agoAnimal agriculture brought us covid and it’ll bring us bird flu.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•Have you ever been on the wrong side of a social justice movement? What were your feelings like? [cw: misogyny and racism]English6·5 days agomassive wave of cringe
I can’t think of anything at the moment, but there’s definitely a few things for me that bring back memories and feelings of cringe like this.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•Have you ever been on the wrong side of a social justice movement? What were your feelings like? [cw: misogyny and racism]English7·5 days agowere either lying or exaggerating
I’ve quietly felt this in my teen years
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•Have you ever been on the wrong side of a social justice movement? What were your feelings like? [cw: misogyny and racism]English8·5 days ago“Oh, it turns out that research consistently shows that the only effective treatment is validation of their professed gender identity”
I’m constantly frustrated how tens of millions of people can have opinions that can be changed with a minute of Googling.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•Have you ever been on the wrong side of a social justice movement? What were your feelings like? [cw: misogyny and racism]English6·5 days agoNon-American’s giving shit to Americans is a public service, regardless of what happened.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•Have you ever been on the wrong side of a social justice movement? What were your feelings like? [cw: misogyny and racism]English6·5 days agoTBH I used to quietly hate ppl who did Magic or LARP back in the day, which feels silly now as they were hurting no one, and in the 90s they were more progressive than normies.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•Have you ever been on the wrong side of a social justice movement? What were your feelings like? [cw: misogyny and racism]English6·5 days agoEmpathy can be really hard. One needs to spend a fair amount of energy just feeling what the other person is going through, and the mutual aid part can take even more. To go and question the reason for one’s material comfort is more than most people are willing to do.
Congrats on finding your way out of it. I do have this belief that most white Westoids are absolute sociopaths who have learned away their ability to feel normal empathy.
ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOPto askchapo@hexbear.net•Have you ever been on the wrong side of a social justice movement? What were your feelings like? [cw: misogyny and racism]English11·5 days agoOr maybe the bigger picture was just that I still bought the idea that the US were the good guys and that we were stabilizing the world and spreading democracy
I can’t stress enough that this and the other things you said were constantly fed to you from birth. It’s amazing that people do find their way out of Western chauvinism.
I need to point out that EVERY argument I get in when the other party is incredibly wrong, they get really semantic and make false claims about the other side being mean. Literally every time.
I see hexbearians asking for evidence of “ableism”, with no responses.