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Cake day: 2025年10月21日

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  • as a male, (please don’t ban me like 2xchromosones always did…) this is 100% correct.

    holidays should be a family/group thing. it’s a LOT of friggen work for 1 person. I would always initiate putting up the tree (too early mind you lol) or getting the decorations string around the house walls, extra deep cleaning and do the big part of the cooking. my partner at the time would focus on the baking, and organizing the food we need while we both went shopping together. it was fun, we treated every day like a date night and spend all hours together doing what we needed too to ensure everything was perfect and festive… it’s been way too long since I’ve done this sadly. ok, I’m gonna go find a corner to shed some holidays tears.

    have a great Christmas sunbrrn, and everyone else here.