I know this is a thing on Reddit where idiot kids will circumvent ToS and subreddit rules by deleting their commment because it remains as a notification, while removing any reportable trace, but that’s not how Lenny works. Deleted comments show that a person commented but does not show they comment.

So, why is this so common?

(If this isn’t the place to ask, my apologies. I just don’t know what the right pace to ask it is if this isn’t the one. Also. I’m blocking all the clowns that think it’s funny to comment and delete.)

  • RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    6 days ago

    For me it’s because I: replied to the wrong comment, wrote a response that was wrong because I didn’t fully read or understand the subject, or I decided that it wasn’t worth it.

  • thumbtaxx@lemmy.world
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    Usually because I’m feeling strongly enough about something to comment, then I’m reminded that engaging the random public is akin to pissing into a fan, and that’s not very pleasant

  • Felis_Catus_Domesticus@lemmy.world
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    because it remains as a notification, while removing any reportable trace

    This.

    It’s a chickenshit hit & run tactic for hate speech.

    Used mainly by those who decry hate speech online.

    Go Figger. .

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      Yeah, the issue is these dumbasses think it works like Reddit here. It doesn’t.

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        maybe the culture will adjust and change over time.

        the internet didn’t always suck like it has for the past 10-15 years.

        it went from what is was in the 90’s to what it is today.

        maybe the pendulum will swing back in the other direction eventually, as is the trend in most things.

        either because people simply move on, or because people begin to see the error that is present in the current way of doing things.

        life is tough. people are assholes. deal with it.

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    I usually only delete if I replied to the wrong comment or accidentally replied to the main post instead of a comment. There are some good reasons.

    Also if I comment and then read down and I see I duplicated someone.

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    It’s unfortunately part of the the lemmy culture now. A lot of people instinctively react and post without thinking, which they later regret. We’ve lost a lot of critical thinking when it comes to the internet culture, so here we are.

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    I see a lot of differing reasons people do it, all of which are legit. I wonder if it might make sense for Lemmy to add an optional delete reason field.

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    I do it when I respond to the wrong person. Or rarely when I think better of what I just said. Usually the second one happens before I post though.

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    There’s a subset of fedi users who delete their comments after a while to save resources for their instance. It’s probably not the majority of what you encounter, but there’s enough that a lot of fedi software supports it as a feature.