• MJKee9@lemmy.world
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      A majority of human interaction is some form of manipulation. I think the question should be what degree the manipulation serves the manipulator versus the mark. For example, my wife compliments me for not looking like a total piece of shit. This both helps diminish tendencies in me she dislikes (helping her) and encourages me to not be a piece of shit, which given that my wife generally looks out for my best interests, helps me as well. From the opposite perspective, gaslighting is a form of manipulation that only benefits the manipulator… Hence why it’s frowned upon.

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    7 hours ago

    While some people identify possibly problematic themes with this, for me it was quite moving. My family in particular have always seen this version of me that I never saw, especially not when I was suffering from depression and only seeing myself as someone who didn’t deserve happiness, and once I started therapy it made it easier for me to start appreciating myself more. They saw the person it would take me a very long time to give myself permission to discover.

    This reminds me of that.

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      3 hours ago

      Yeah this seems to be more “even when you’re feeling down about yourself, you’re still loved and valued.” At least that’s the message I got from it.

      Though I can see how it can be interpreted as toxic positivity for others.

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      6 hours ago

      Me telling the 6” of snow that it’s going to melt at 17° because it’s sunny outside.

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    10 hours ago

    Yeah… Well, try calling me sunshine when in a grumpy mood and see what happens, I dare you.