Which - to me - is a good thing.

Do not know what downvotes are.

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  • Andrew
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    9120 days ago

    Yeah, it’s the strange thing about engaging post titles - people seem to be so busy answering them, they ‘forget’ to also upvote them. In contrast, a meme that’s funny but about which there’s not much to say, is more likely to get an upvote as some kind of compensation for the lack of discussion.

    • @cron@feddit.org
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      4020 days ago

      If a post is interesting enough to write a comment, it also deserves an upvote.

    • @Oisteink@lemmy.world
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      720 days ago

      Its a silly system that only worked on reddit for a short while. If you are old enough you’d know that already from slaahdot karma development/history

      • mad_asshatter
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        720 days ago

        /. 's moderation is the closest any moderation will get to ‘adequate at best’, but vastly imperfect.

        Natalie Portman’s grits approve this message.

    • pooberbee (any)
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      420 days ago

      My expectation is that a post’s score is upvotes minus downvotes, but I think it should be more like upvotes plus comments with downvotes excluded (or maybe let users filter based on upvote/downvote ratio or something). Maybe count commenters instead of comments.

  • @alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml
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    Downvotes without any response: This is unpopular with this community, but probably correct.

    Downvotes with responses: This was either contentious or wrong.

    1 upvote, 0 downvotes, 10+ responses: You posted something really dumb, and Hexbear found out.

      • @halvar@lemm.ee
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        For me it was having the audacity to state Holodomor was real, while denying it is actually a crime in my county. Looking it up it actually isn’t, but it’s widely accepted to have happened and is taught in history lessons.

    • @GroundedGator@lemmy.world
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      318 days ago

      100% agree.

      I configure my editor to use 3 space characters per tab. I’ve worked with people who prefer tabs represented as 2 or 8 or just about any number. But I can look at the same code as them worth my preferred look.

      Also works best for line length restrictions. A tab is a single character and always is.

    • @mryessirOP
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      -418 days ago

      Die alone on that hill, brother.

  • @halvar@lemm.ee
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    1519 days ago

    For me it’s categorizing radical ideologies correctly. I just hate people throwing around buzzwords, calling anyone a communist/fascist they disagree with. Those words have meanings. You can actually be worse then the fascists and still not be one, it’s not impossible. You can still be hated for that, but you didn’t automatically become one, because you are right-wing and coincidentally an asshole. But the moment someome calls you a fascist, while you’re just an asshole, their opinon automatically becomes invalid and wrong.

  • Asudox
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    116 days ago

    Most commenters comment multiple times while engaging with others in the comments section.

  • Hal-5700X
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    -1319 days ago

    Why not just deactivate all votes. Seeing having voting makes Lemmy more like Reddit. Also deactivate all votes will help to have more discussions. Due to users can’t just downvote you and call it a day. They have to tell you why and how you’re wrong.

  • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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    -4420 days ago

    Semi-tangential. Every time I get downvoted, I move an inch closer to the exit door of this community.

    I’m talking about comments rather than posts, of course. And it should go without saying that the comments in question do not contain factual errors or even rudeness. Just pure opinion, expressed civilly.

    Downvoting is, almost always, poisonous behavior in an online community. It is just as poisonous as saying “Shut up” to someone in a real-life social situation.

    IMO the corporate social networks get this fact better than the literalist geeky types and other well-meaning idealists to be found in this forum.

    • Transporter Room 3
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      2020 days ago

      Every time I get downvoted, I move an inch closer to the exit door of this community.

      Lol OK bye.

      Nobody gives a shit and complaining about down votes is the quickest way to get them.

      Guess what! Outside of a few custom instances that for some reason want to be reddit, the fediverse doesn’t track your total karma.

      Unless you’re going back to keep track of your comments for some weird reason, the only time you see a down voted comment is when you get replies.

      I could have hundreds of net down votes by now, but I don’t know because luckily my instance doesn’t track votes.

      The point is, it’s a little number next to an arrow. Who gives a shit.

      • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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        220 days ago

        Yeah I know that I’m courting downvotes here but that doesn’t disprove my argument.

        My argument is that downvoting opinions expressed in a thoughtful way is just uncivil. It degrades the atmosphere. It causes the less thick-skinned to shut up, to self-censor, to leave. The inevitable result will be less civil conversation, less participants, and - to caricature it a bit - just a bunch of guys shouting and snarking and sniping and generally “not giving a shit”.

        And let’s be honest, you probably are a guy. I am too BTW.

        • @medgremlin@midwest.social
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          719 days ago

          Personally, I use downvotes to say “I disagree with this and/or it is a stupid/bad/bigoted/etc take, but I do not wish to spend the time and effort to respond and get dragged into a text-based mudfight with someone who is unlikely to speak to me politely, no matter how polite I try to be in my rebuttal.”

          I like having a way to say “no, bad, stop that” without having to spend time trying to explain things or engage with someone who I think is beyond convincing anyways.

          • @IronKrill@lemmy.ca
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            619 days ago

            While it is easy to fall into this trap of disagree downvotes, they should really not be used that way. All that does is turn them into a popularity contest. Downvotes should be used on comments that do not improve the thread. This may be because they are wrong, made in bad faith, rude, or otherwise, but not simply because you disagree. Ideally we would have different buttons for this like the forums of old, but no one seems interested in that nowadays.

            • @medgremlin@midwest.social
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              119 days ago

              Typically, the things I disagree with are the things like bad faith arguments, lies, rudeness, or bigoted ideals that purport that not all humans deserve equal rights, etc.

            • @mryessirOP
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              118 days ago

              Ideally we would have different buttons for this like the forums of old, but no one seems interested in that nowadays.

              What buttons were them?

              • @IronKrill@lemmy.ca
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                218 days ago

                Instead of up/down buttons you would have a set of buttons such as “Agree”, “Disagree”, “Funny”, “Useful”, etcetera. The only website I know of that still uses these is Ravelry.

                • @mryessirOP
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                  118 days ago

                  Ahh, that is a neat thought. Thanks for elaborating and sharing.

          • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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            419 days ago

            Personally, I use downvotes to say “I disagree with this and/or it is a stupid/bad/bigoted/etc take, but I do not wish to spend the time and effort to respond and get dragged into a text-based mudfight

            So far, a great articulation of what (I guess) most downvoters are thinking.

            with someone who is unlikely to speak to me politely, no matter how polite I try to be in my rebuttal.”

            But I’m not sure you’re being honest with yourself here. Certainly not if you’re talking about my comments, which are always polite if sometimes a bit forthright because I’m a direct kind of person.

            I like having a way to say “no, bad, stop that”

            Nicely put, again. But then: why should your antagonist “stop that”? They should shut up just because you disagree with them?

            We come back to the crucial element: civility. If one believes in free speech, and the right of others to have their own opinions and to have a voice, I still see absolutely justification for downvoting a thoughtfully expressed opinion.

            I don’t agree with you here but I respect your right to have an opinion and I would never think of downvoting you for it. If that comes across as sanctimonious, so be it. I prefer to see it as just coherent with values. Which I’m sure you share, by the way.

            • @medgremlin@midwest.social
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              319 days ago

              Usually, when I disagree with something, it is because it is incorrect, lying, or particularly mean-spirited. I disagree with people that do not think that every human deserves the same rights. I disagree with people that push for ideologies that would strip other humans of their rights, or that would inflict needless suffering. I don’t downvote people when I disagree with what media they think is good or something. I downvote those that express ideas that are antithetical to what I see as basic human decency or that are factually incorrect.

              • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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                419 days ago

                Factually incorrect, sure. But do you not see that your other criteria are very subjective? Rights, suffering, decency, these are all slippery non-binary concepts. Others may define them differently from you. Presumably you don’t think that others are not allowed to have their own opinions, yet in effect you’re telling them that. I think I already know which way you vote and, believe it or not, I vote that way too. But in my understanding of history, treating the views of others as invalid is generally a dangerous path to be on.

                • @medgremlin@midwest.social
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                  118 days ago

                  That’s why it’s a disagreement. I’m not necessarily saying their opinions are factually incorrect, just that they are devoid of empathy, morally reprehensible, and antithetical to the teachings of the religious figure that they are statistically likely to claim to be faithful to. A lack of empathy should not be rewarded.

    • @FrostyTrichs@walledgarden.xyz
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      1419 days ago

      There’s always the option to join an instance with downvoting disabled or to turn off the vote tallies yourself in your account settings.

      • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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        419 days ago

        the option to join an instance with downvoting disabled

        Having trouble wrapping my mind around this. The post is on Site A. My comment is on Site B. The evil downvoter sees it on Site C. Um - what happens next?

        turn off the vote tallies yourself in your account settings

        Already did that, the exact number is a waste of screen space.

        I don’t deny that voting is helpful when it’s used to rate the quality of the contribution - i.e. whether or not it adds values, makes you think. But to vote based on how much you subjectively agree or disagree is completely useless, it’s all about the person voting and nothing about the comment. It adds literally nothing and when it’s a downvote it stifles and poisons the atmosphere too. Anyway, I’ve made my point.

        • @FrostyTrichs@walledgarden.xyz
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          Having trouble wrapping my mind around this. The post is on Site A. My comment is on Site B. The evil downvoter sees it on Site C. Um - what happens next?

          You don’t ever know that evildoer downvoted, because vote totals never drop below 1 (technically 0 but assume OP doesn’t undo the default vote or you downvote). Other instances can still see the vote totals. You can still easily tell popular things from unpopular things but without the downvoters affecting the way YOU see the content.

          It does a lot of things but one example would be if someone were to downvote something out of spite with all their alt accounts. Depending on sorting and whatnot you or someone else may not see that content on an instance with downvoting enabled because it usually gets pushed down or collapsed. Without downvoting that content will instead show as something with few upvotes and more or less be blended normally with the rest of the comments.

          • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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            319 days ago

            Without downvoting that content will instead show as something with few upvotes and more or less be blended normally with the rest of the comments.

            To confirm: an unpopular comment posted on downvoting-enabled Site A will show higher when viewed on downvoting-disabled Site B? Or only if it was actually posted on Site B?

            • @FrostyTrichs@walledgarden.xyz
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              an unpopular comment posted on downvoting-enabled Site A will show higher when viewed on downvoting-disabled Site B

              More or less yes, depending on how you have your sorting set and if the comment/post has any positive interactions. At worst it just shows as something with a single upvote and is sorted based on time or however it fits inline with other content with similar vote numbers. Since it’s removing the outliers you see a better overall picture of what’s being said IMO. It’s up to you to decide if that’s positive, negative, or even something you care about.

              Or only if it was actually posted on Site B?

              It affects how people on instances with downvotes disabled see it no matter where it was posted from. Basically the downvotes simply do not exist to instances that have them disabled.

    • @mark@programming.dev
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      1320 days ago

      Every time I get downvoted, I move an inch closer to the exit door of this community.

      By community, do you mean just this particular Lemmy community or the community on Lemmy collectively? If the latter, there are other alternative Lemmy communities on other instances that may be better suited for you.

      Just would hate to see someone leave Lemmy over toxic energy in one place. There’s a big world here in fediverse!

    • @desktop_user@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1120 days ago

      It is still important to be able to disagree publicly with people who’s opinions are just wrong, such as those saying something is trash because it is old, or not answering the asked question but instead answering some useless hypothetical about “safety”.

      • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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        -220 days ago

        By community, do you mean just this particular Lemmy community or the community on Lemmy collectively? If the latter, there are other alternative Lemmy communities on other instances that may be better suited for you.

        You mean “the former”. But this is a counter-argument that dares not speak its name. My proposition is that all online communities suffer when opinions are downvoted (which is how the downvote button is overwhelmingly used), not just this community. Just as all dinner parties suffer when someone points their finger at someone else and says, “Shut up, you’re wrong”.

          • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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            520 days ago

            This is to explicitly invalidate other people’s opinions. We are talking about points of view expressing civilly, not about irrelevancy.

        • @intensely_human@lemm.ee
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          019 days ago

          Would a dinner party suffer if it had 10,000 people at the table and instead of saying “shut up” people could just turn the volume knob down on someone else a little, but nobody’s voice would get silenced unless more people turned the knob down on them than up?

          What if the dinner party were open invitation?

          Downvotes fold comments and sort them last. It’s signal inhibition.

          • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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            119 days ago

            but nobody’s voice would get silenced unless more people turned the knob down on them than up?

            So, a popularity contest of opinions where unpopular views do get silenced.

            The signal can be inhibited in exactly the same way by just not upvoting what you don’t want to see. Yes, it’s not as powerful as downvoting but then at least you’re not telling someone to sit down and shut up.

            For me, that is the real issue. Why are so many people so keen to hide opinions that they don’t like? Again: we are talking about viewpoints expressed in a thoughtful manner. Not irrelevancy, not insults, not incoherent rambling. They’re all fair game.

            Personally I find it disturbing that so many people are happy to invalidate and silence others. I don’t agree with you but you made your point well and it would never cross my mind to downvote you for making it.

    • @corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
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      419 days ago

      I heard downvotes expressed a consensus that a comment or post does not hold value in the context of that community. It’s not “shut up” but more “well that’s not relevant”.

      • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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        Unsure if you’re even being serious here. The relevancy of the subject matter is not in question. The issue at hand is that people are downvoting opinions. Forgive my directness but if an opinion does not hold value in the context of the community, that seems to me just a waffly way of saying that the opinion is not welcome in the community without actually saying it.

      • @lemmyingly@lemm.ee
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        Unfortunately people don’t see voting systems as a method to highlight the relavency of a contribution. They see it as a like/dislike system, and so I see as shut up signal used by most because downvoting a contribution buries it to the bottom where few people will see it.

        If it was used for relevancy and quaility then communities would be self regulating by the users. I believe Reddit’s guidelines state(s/d) it’s voting system was meant to be for relevancy, even though most people use it as a like/dislike system.

    • AwesomeLowlander
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      218 days ago

      You might find a better environment at Beehaw? Not my cup of tea, but each to their own.

    • @Fleur__@lemmy.world
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      -320 days ago

      Yeah I’m always confused by the people who are like the downvote button is for off topic discussions. Like no that’s reporting and functionally the downvote button is the “I had a negative reaction to this button” and the up vote is the “I had a positive reaction to this button”

      Personally I don’t downvote anyone because it just feels petty and pointless. Some of my favorite comments have loads of downvotes and to me it just makes whatever dumb shit I said funnier

      • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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        220 days ago

        functionally the downvote button is the “I had a negative reaction to this button” and the up vote is the “I had a positive reaction to this button”

        Exactly this.

        Some of my favorite comments have loads of downvotes and to me it just makes whatever dumb shit I said funnier

        If you’re talking about your comments, and you laugh at others who downvote them, then well done. But I submit that most humans are not so thick-skinned.

        There’s also the question of visibility: downvoting a comment is not just saying “You’re wrong”, it’s making the comment less visible to others. A form of censorship, basically. I personally find it extremely annoying and unfair when it happens.

        Perhaps it also has to do with how much time and thought you put into the offending comment.

        • @Fleur__@lemmy.world
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          -119 days ago

          Man you can’t be spending more than 30 seconds on a comment. If its taking longer to write out just delete it and move on. If you’ve really got something to say in longer than 30 seconds make a post about it

    • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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      -1220 days ago

      Obviously my argument is being confirmed by the response to this comment. Seriously guys - I would bet that you’re all guys - you’ll regret it when you’re left with nobody to talk to but other cynics and nihilists and mindless jokers.

      • @Makeshift@sh.itjust.works
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        I gave you some from a girl to help balance things out!

        But I can promise you, from many years net positive on reddit and a not disimilar result here, that you’re not reading your own tone.

        Be mindful of the tone, only come off as combative against a near universally disliked topic, and know when you don’t care to curate yourself and are ready for the downvotes.

        Your wording here makes you out to be combative, and people are combative in response. Read your own comments as if they’re directed AT you. And look specifically at what’s likely to make you want to argue back. You may even be surprised at what can get net positive response with the right wording.

        • @JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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          219 days ago

          This is an excellent point, very perceptive and well expressed, and the first time somebody has actually said it. I know it already and I do try to do as you suggest. The problem is that I have a bit of a combative personality so it’s a real struggle, especially when I feel I’m choosing my words very intentionally so that nothing is literally insulting or wrong or falsifiable. A combative lawyer basically, what could possibly go wrong? I often wish I could be more emollient and compromising in my attitude to others, I really do admire it when I see it in others. But alas personality is something very hard to change. So yeah, thanks for the insightful and constructive feedback. And take an upvote to add to your overflowing and deserved collection.

      • @intensely_human@lemm.ee
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        019 days ago

        And people like me who don’t go away just because they get downvoted.

        You can go find your community of all positive interactions, and well keep our positive/negative mix.