I’m thinking about getting a masturbator for the time after my wife has given birth. But I have no idea where to even start. Anyone here using one, and can share some experiences?
I am searching for something that:
- is easy to clean,
- can fit my whole dick such that I can fuck it like a vagina, and
- maybe has some extras like vibration or suction or so.


Level up, keep a bottle of lube on hand.
I just use pork lard. Finger licking good.