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Cake day: October 6th, 2023

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  • There’s a British film called All My Friends Hate Me from 2021 which covered a lot of the same themes but I think was more successful in terms of capturing the social anxiety of the main character. It’s incredibly funny but uses tropes from the horror genre to really emphasise the paranoia the main character is feeling.

    Friendship felt very safe, for lack of a better word. It was cringe but had a soft edge to it like the US Office.


  • I thought it was great. Nice to see a new IP succeeding too. The twins being superficially, uh identical, while being played by the same actor could have backfired but I felt like the film did well to give them their own distinct personalities.

    One thing that stuck with me was the racial politics of the vampire coven. When people were turned to vampires they became homogenised and lost part of their person/self and this seemed to be a metaphor for people losing their black identity by being forcibly integrated into a white system. It was unclear whether they recovered some of their personhood when the head vampire was killed but I think that’s what the film was saying in the post-credits scene.


  • I think the whole “wrong generation” thing is a bit of a misconception, at least in terms of culture. Say you really love 60s culture, you can dress like you are in the 60s and listen to all the music from that time - including obscure stuff your local record store wouldn’t have had then but likely do now. Then additionally you can also listen to the odd song for the 70s and 80s if they take your fancy. The 60s are a part of pop culture and you can swim in that stream for as long as you want.

    Socially as well, I think people underestimate how much latitude we are given to be individuals in modern society vs even like 30 years ago where social pressures to conform were stronger.

    Economically I think there could be some cause for concern for the future but there were really tough economic times in the past too. Stagflation in the late 70s for example is worse than what we are experiencing at the moment. Having a kid could be something people treat like buying a property and waiting for the ideal time to do it; however, property prices are unpredictable and trying to judge it perfectly is like trying to catch a falling knife. The best advice is just to buy a property when you can afford it, and that probably holds true for having a kid too (assuming you want one… that’s another benefit of living in contemporary times!)















  • Yes, both.

    Nicotine: will hit my wife’s vape or buy a pack of nicotine pouches during the week. At the weekend I’ll buy a pack of cigarettes becauss I like smoking at the pub. Main deterence is how expensive it is but I feel like I’d only get a 10 deck at the weekend if they still sold them in the UK. Healthwise, living in the city is roughly equivalent to smoking a few cigarettes a day so I think I’m just tinkering around the edges.

    Alcohol: I’ll have a beer or some wine most days. More when I’m out at the weekend. Probably drink too much but I enjoy it. Social activity.

    Edit - millenial


  • Even at the time he garnered a lot of controversy for those remarks and it would be fair to say that his comments have made him beyond the pale for some people.

    At the same time, he’s got a complicated legacy where he raised the profile of the performing arts in Scotland. Additionally, he was born almost 100 years ago so it maybe shouldn’t be too surprising that he had some backwards attitudes.

    tax dodger == non-dom? You see that quite a lot with Scottish celebrities. Irvine Welsh springs to mind too and his work is more explicitly political.