I think that there needs to stop being this sort of ‘competition’ between the sexes. One isn’t better then the other. We’re both different and that’s ok
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Wish more women were like this
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Is it giving up or choosing an independent life?
1·1 month agoWomen aren’t “ditching dating for cats.” They’re reacting to the fallout of modern feminism blowing up the old relationship structure.
For decades, feminism pushed the idea that women shouldn’t rely on a man, shouldn’t stay home, shouldn’t want a provider, shouldn’t want traditional roles. That message didn’t just change women — it changed men. The kind of men who used to take pride in providing, protecting, and leading in a family? They were shamed, labeled oppressive, or told their masculinity was toxic.
So what happened?
Now you’ve got a generation of men who don’t want to — or straight up can’t — provide. Men who expect both people to work full-time because that’s “modern equality,” but still want the woman to handle the home because they were raised that way. The traditional man who actually took responsibility, carried the load, and made it possible for a woman to be a stay-at-home wife? Practically extinct.
Women didn’t stop wanting that option. The option disappeared.
So when women look around and realize the only deals available are:
Work full-time
Do most of the housework
Take care of the kids
Split bills 50/50 with a man who isn’t stepping up
And still be told they’re “lucky”
They’re not choosing cats instead of men.
They’re choosing cats instead of a lopsided relationship where the masculine role was gutted, traditional values are gone, and the kind of good men they actually want no longer exist in meaningful numbers.
It’s not that women changed. It’s that feminism wiped out the men who made traditional life possible.
That’s the problem.
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Is it giving up or choosing an independent life?
4·1 month agoIm sorry for your loss
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Monday motivation... how are you going to make this week a good week?
3·1 month agoBy believing in myself
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•What are you like as a romantic partner?
5·1 month agoVery affectionate
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•are there any street tips you all can share?
1·1 month agoIf your arm falls asleep, put water on it it’ll wake it up
My shadow
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•What's something you've lied to yourself about?
2·1 month agoHe’ll change lol
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•WomensStuff weekend positivity... who has really helped you?
2·2 months agoMy mother. She’s stronger then an ox and extremely compassionate and kind
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
Casual Conversation@piefed.social•If you could change one rule of your favorite sport, what would it be?
1·2 months agoNo more ass spanking
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Anyone got any ideas for funtime friday games?
5·2 months agoAuto correct the sentence.
Write a sentence and have autocorrect finish it for some funny outcomes
But what’s the context though? What is the article saying exactly?
SparkleBooty@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What’s contributing most to the death of the open internet?
4·2 months agoWhether you like it or not, its censorship. Ppl with opposite political views silencing eachother creating echo chambers of only ppl who align with them politically.
Things are too strict now, every one has a mega phone and wants to shout at eachother and their opinion. The internet has become one big political pile of shit, most actually chill ppl, avoid it as a source of escapism.
Barrier to entry. Not enough laid back open minded ppl. So now, everyone’s separated and closed off. Ppl just want control
It’s not about connection and getting information, it’s all about pushing some fucking agenda.

Thank you. I think it’s worse on here tbh