• GraniteM@lemmy.world
    11·
    18 天前

    I have an amazing kid and I love her and she’s the light of my life and I wouldn’t trade her for anything and all…

    …but she is absolutely killing me and this is the hardest, scariest thing I’ve ever done in my life, and if anyone felt even one percent less than totally committed to parenthood then I would advise them not to do it. The idea of trying to convince somebody to create a human being that they would then resent, leading to at least two deeply fucked up lifetimes, is the stupidest goddamn thing imaginable.

    There are plenty of people who want to have kids. Let 'em. Everyone else should do something they’d rather do instead.

    • UnequalExchange@lemmy.world
      2·
      16 天前

      The majority of humans dont have access to sex ed, sterilization, birth control and abortions

      So theres a million people out there who are regretful parrnts and didnt have the oppurtunities that you did and they dont feep the same joy towards your kid as you do.

      I feel sorry for thrm

      Thanks for your story and consideration though 🫂

  • UnequalExchange@lemmy.world
    2·
    16 天前

    The majority of humans dont have access to sex ed, sterilization, birth control and abortions. Always remember this.

    Theres a million stories out there thst coulf have gone like hers’ but didnt get a chance to…