My ex-girlfriend is now a straight, “proper” Christian woman who went through what she calls a “gay phase” and a “trans phase” even though I like to say she was just questioning.

She is very anti-transition and I notice on Snapchat there is some detransition propaganda stuff from even the “pride” accounts.

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    6 days ago

    It’s that same inner conflict/self hatred in gay people. The most anti-homo people are the ones who are fighting their own tendencies.

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      6 days ago

      Yeah, we have some pretty fucked up societal preconceptions about sexuality.

      I know that is an incredible understatement, but still, it is a fundamental truth of Western society.

      I think the one statement that I can make that supersedes that is “love is more important than the rules”.

      If you have to bend the rules to love yourself or someone else, then bend the fucking rules until they break.