Dr. WeskerM to Everyday BingoEnglish · 9 months agoYou need to break eye contact during a conversation with someone, and when you do you unintentionally look at their crotch or boobs, and then wonder if they noticedmessage-squaremessage-square4linkfedilinkarrow-up114arrow-down11
arrow-up113arrow-down1message-squareYou need to break eye contact during a conversation with someone, and when you do you unintentionally look at their crotch or boobs, and then wonder if they noticedDr. WeskerM to Everyday BingoEnglish · 9 months agomessage-square4linkfedilink
minus-squarevacuumflowerlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·9 months agoThe experience of much of my life, until I learned that you can forget shame and look at their shoulders and hands and neck and hair, and that’d be both socially acceptable and pleasant. I thought non-autistic people learn this before puberty.
minus-squareDr. WeskerOPMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·9 months agoI don’t necessarily plan to look at their bits, it’s just the result of a glance in a random direction.
minus-squarevacuumflowerlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·9 months agoExactly. While you should plan to look at bits no less aesthetically pleasing, but with no danger involved whatsoever.
The experience of much of my life, until I learned that you can forget shame and look at their shoulders and hands and neck and hair, and that’d be both socially acceptable and pleasant. I thought non-autistic people learn this before puberty.
I don’t necessarily plan to look at their bits, it’s just the result of a glance in a random direction.
Exactly. While you should plan to look at bits no less aesthetically pleasing, but with no danger involved whatsoever.