While counter-intuitive, the big banks are actually really good about queer issues because they have to be and don’t want to get sued. The bank I work at has an entire gender expansive community in addition to its queer focused community and it has been a life saver. Found good people to connect with and also many allies outside of the community just in the workplace. Combine that with good pay and a constant need for good software engineers and the big banks are a really good home for queer folks looking for a safe haven.

P.S. I know banks don’t have a perfect track record on queer issues and individual experiences may differ from what I mention here. This is just my experience working with a bunch of trans/enby folks at a bank.