Stamets, surprising absolutely no one.

He’s the first gay main character, has a surprising amount of character development, has a great sense of humor and at first he reminds me way too much of me. Or at least how I used to be like. Then he grows into the person I’d like to be. Someone who cares about people and who tries to reach to others to help them when they need it.

Characters not perfect but I do love him. I will never not love him. I cannot tell you just how much seeing a gay character on screen was important to me. I grew up with Trek and there was so much diversity and inclusion for everyone but I was invisible. People pretended like I didn’t exist in the real world so when the future didn’t have me in it… It was disheartening. Still trusted in the promise of Star Trek and loved it but felt… Lonely.

When Stamets came on screen for the first time I absolutely hated him. Then slowly he started to grow on me. By the end of his second or third episode, I was already really soft on him but when they did the scene where Stamets is brushing his teeth with Culber and you become aware they’re a couple?

I cried. A lot. For the first time I could see myself in Trek. For the first time there was real representation and love without shying away from it. Moreover, it wasn’t dressed up. There was no forcing it. It didn’t feel awkward or strange. It was perfect. They just did the scene like they would for anyone but it just happened that these people were gay. Stamets isn’t the “gay character”. He’s a primary character who happens to be gay. I cannot tell you how much that means to me.

I will forever love Stamets for so so many reasons.