To be succinct and private… My incubator worked me for weeks to build rapport and trust with me in my younger days, to get me to tell her a something that she would ultimately, and immediately use and weaponize against me and others.

This wasnt the first time I tried to have a relationship with her, but it did finally open my eyes and become the last. In the many many decades since, I’ve not so much as acknowledge her existence when crossing paths.

  • some_guyEnglish
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    10 hours ago

    Nor should you. But don’t lose trust in yourself. You’ll fuck up, sometimes. You won’t know the right thing to do. You’ll say the wrong thing and make yourself or someone else feel bad. But that’s life.

    You’re also the person who you’ll be with for the rest of your life (you can’t change that). Work on learning to love yourself. It makes a huge difference when you get there. I wish you the best.