

lots of good advice here. I agree with the sentiment that having a SO won’t make you feel like less of a loser.
But here is my two cents. I think the point of being in a romantic relationship with someone is to hang out with someone that you like and who likes you (and, you know, have sex if you’re into that). Really not much more to it than that.





I think this take may be a bit too hot. Musical genres arise out of shared culture and material conditions.
The structure of punk, and it’s simplicity, has everything to do with accessibility. And that accessibility has everything to do with class.