I have to thank the self-inflicted immolation of those two websites for breaking me of the doomscrolling and rage refreshing habits I have found myself in. First mastodon, then here at lemmy I am seeing conversations a bit more like what I was used to online eons ago. Smol communities in any flavor (social media, meatspace, etc) just seem healthier.
Big enya fan here. She did fame the right way: made her millions, bought a castle, filled it with cats and pulled the drawbridge up behind her.