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  • Absolutely - anything can have more than one objective. But when money is an objective, the one constant is that it changes what it affects. Sometimes better in some ways, sometimes worse.

    Sport is a good analogy here, I think. Amateur sport has little impact beyond those directly involved. Adding money increases exposure of those sports, better facilities, lots of scope for good - and yet big money sports are also very often mired in corruption and greed. (FIFA being a timely example) Those base human behaviours never go away.




  • Been a big fan of EV for three decades, but I totally support this view.

    Voting has always been political (both at panel and public levels) and to be fair to the organisers they’ve tried to address this in recent years. But keeping Israel in this year was bizarre and totally changed the tone. Russia was rightly excluded, but not Israel? And no declaration that it will be different next year?

    There has always been controversy, but rarely at the level if keeping in a country nobody else wants. The Netherlands, Iceland, Ireland, Spain and Slovenia and not being unreasonable.














  • Hello fellow codger. I, 55m, work amongst much younger people. Here’s my take: It’s not about age.

    People “who only care about gossip” - well, there’s as many of those in the older age group. Age sometimes teaches people cunning, so they’re less overt, but they’re sure as hell gossiping about you and everyone else when they find a friendly ear. IME, the only difference age brings to work relationships is a different set of cultural references. They’ll talk about stuff you’ve never heard of - and you’ll be doing the same to their ear.

    It sounds like you’re new to this workplace, and possibly working with people of differing ages and experiences. That’s fine, I’ve been there too. (Full career change in my late 40s). It’s scary, uncertain and confusing - but just dive in.

    In any group, there’ll be a few people you get on with, some you don’t, and the majority somewhere in the grey middle. Some will go out of their way to help you some of the time. Some won’t. Some are annoying, some aren’t. If someone offers to help and does the opposite - that’s a useful thing to learn about them.

    If you’re annoyed by them, then much of the resolution lies within you. Mentally close them out, or find ways to deal with those feelings. This can’t be the first time you’ve been in this situation?