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Cake day: July 7th, 2023

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  • My dear, I am sorry to hear you are trough a rough patch.

    I think that for running, you need to have your legs, feet and muscles working. If they don’t, you need to go to a doctor before enrolling in a marathon. So that would be my path.

    You mentioned you are not easily replaceable at work, that causes stress but also work safety. So on that front you have a bit of calm.

    You may use the money you earn from there and go see a therapist. Make sure to address your anxiety. Take the time it takes, Rome wasn’t built in a day and, again, you need to be fit before “running“.

    If family creates you troubles maybe you need indeed to move out (when you feel ready) because that environment may slow your recovery down. Maybe find some flatmates… and when you see the apartment also try to figure out if they seem mentally healthy (sadly people with trauma are attracted by other people with trauma).

    Alternatively you may look into college but, indeed, working full time and studying requires you to be well in shape.

    I wish you all the best and, at the end of the day, life is an adventure… you never know when everything starts to turn for the best.

    Good luck and an hug






  • Call me a weirdo but the more errors a compilers give me the happier (albeit a bit frustrated) I am. That stuff generally surfaces in a way or another… and I prefer at compile time 🙂

    That said I haven’t spent quality time with Rust yet… so not sure if there are a lot of nitpicks (ala go) or these are valgrind-level of “holy s*** I am so grateful to this tool” 😃




  • diffusive@lemmy.worldtopolitics @lemmy.worldAlligator Auschwitz
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    11 days ago

    Here is the neat part…nobody will get involved for a matter of internal “policies” with the country with the biggest army in the world.

    I suspect US is on its own now.

    But at least libs have been owned, Biden has been punished for supporting Israel, the trans will not play sport (all 5 of them that wanted to)…

    It’s so depressing that the social network disinformation campaigns where so effective 😕








  • I think it turned out worse than that.

    I am ok with “question everything”, the problem is that people don’t believe in reputable sources that don’t confirm their beliefs, they look (possibly unreliable) sources that confirm them

    I think it is due to the echo chamber of social networks. People have constant confirmation of superficial “sources” and they continue to want that.

    Incidentally it’s the reason I use lemmy where the algorithm is not optimised to the point of echo chambers (also looking for “all” helps)