Scarry [comrade/them]

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Cake day: October 30th, 2020

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  • But that feels like a very weird requirement to put out there

    Two points 🫶

    Firstly, you’re not putting a requirement on anyone, you’re filtering out people you don’t want to be with. Would you date a neo-nazi but put in the requirement that they change or simply filter out neo-nazis?

    Secondly, you’re dating for you. Whatever filters, requirement or hatever preference you have for a partner are valid because you are doing this for YOU and if for whatever reason you don’t want to be with someone then you don’t want to be with them and that is the only reason you need to not be with them.