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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • cis white male here (boooo hisssss) but honestly I’ve done twelves for the last twenty odd years and I’m really starting to like them now.

    I know persistent twelves are very much a British shift pattern but I love being able to come off a 12hr night and take my kids to school, or do a 12hr day and still come home to an evening of wine and shit TV.

    Granted, shift work has proven to be… lesser spectacular for one’s health but whenever I go on a 9-5 course, I get to 4pm and start fancying lunch and I’m like “omg I’m nearly done yaaaasss”

    Horses for courses. Either way, I hope you find enough time to rest well and be kind to yourself!





  • I mean … aside from the expenses and extra retention payments, the troopers effectively get the same salary as equivalent rank/service counterparts in the tri-service pay bands. The top ups are nice but aren’t game changing money.

    It’s hard not to see the financial draw from private enterprises such as these. Especially if it’s “money for old rope” when it comes to cascade training, and it’s entry level people they’re instructing.

    It’s not like it’s a new trend either. For as long as the UK has had a decent reputation for doing something - armed forces, aviation, counterintelligence etc… there’s always been folk out selling their training to anyone with money, be they “friendly” states or otherwise.

    If they’re not really interested it going back to the UK… there’s not much that can be really done about it if the nation where they’re training folk isn’t interested either.













  • I take my eldest son out running with me. He plays sport at a national level (not yet near the international stage) so it’s nice to go out to bang in five kilometres every now and then - it’s a great bit of cardio for him, and it drags me out to keep me healthy.

    Honestly, 25 of those minutes are robloxrobloxrobloxrobloxrobloxfortniterobloxrobloxroblox and it can get draining… but it’s important to him so it’s important to me.

    Honestly, it’s just time spent alone with him that makes the difference for me. He’s got some big changes coming up in life and I want to be there for him, so if he ever drops that little breadcrumb into conversation that he’s got problems with his boyfriend or girlfriend, or if he’s getting a hard time off someone, or if the studying and sport is getting him down - then I’ll have hopefully made a space safe enough to chat freely and openly, and his mental health doesn’t take a battering before it’s too late.

    One can dream.