Nasalstrip [he/him]

20, gay stealth trans man Litewally 1984

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Joined 4 months ago
Cake day: August 28th, 2025
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    11 hours ago

    Yeah I’m just so tired all the time, and cis people cis people’ing is a huge contributor.

    Whenever they say some dumbass shit with the “I know what’s best for you” tone I just think of the suicidal tendencies song lyrics:

    “So we decided that it would be in your best interest If we put you somewhere Where you could get the help that you need." And I go, "Wait! What are ya talking about?! We decided?! My best interest?! How do you know what my best interest is! How can you say what my best interest is! And what are ya trying ta say, I’m crazy?! When I went to your schools! I went to your churches! I went to your institutional learning facilities! So how can ya say I’m crazy?!

    They say they’re gonna fix my brain Alleviate my suffering and my pain But by the time they fix my head Mentally, I’ll be dead”

    A little edgy but it’s a great song to listen to when you feel like the world is insane and you’re the only reasonable one lol

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    12 hours ago

    Complaining about the cis lol

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    I’m so fucking sick of cis people and their insistence on constantly bullying us, making judgements on what WE need, pretending they’re experts, treating us like subhumans who need to disclose we’re secretly monsters to everyone we meet or else we’re literally abusers, refusing to acknowledge how many trans kids die because of lack of transition healthcare, acting like “natural” puberty isn’t permanent either, acting like kids ask for surgeries or medical treatments on a whim or just for fun, going out of their way to pretend transition doesn’t help and we’re all just miserable, “biological men!!1!1!1!” “Biological women!1!1!2!”, and thinking their arrogant asses know everything about us whilst totally refusing to talk to us.

    They’re constantly whining about respecting us being so hard! So confusing! “I just don’t get it!!”

    Most of all I’m sick of them blaming US for what we’re going through. Blaming US for our misery at their hands and blaming us for our banned healthcare and blaming us for their abuse and blaming us for our deaths. ANYTHING but accountability or learning. It must be because we were too DEMANDING and “pushed pronouns”! We took up “too much space”! Silly me, forgot they wanted us segregated so they could go on living in their shitty conformist black-and-white hellhole. Better than having to utilize an ounce of empathy and put in the effort of rubbing 2 brain cells together to call someone a different pronoun. That’s just too much!

    Genuinely I’m just so sick and tired and pissed off and the rage has nowhere to go. They want the world to be a black and white binary conformist shithole and then act like we’re crazy for pointing out that that’s totally incompatible with the human mind and experience. I am so sick of cis people.

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    20 days ago

    Anyone have advice on how to deal with shame regarding not driving?

    I have horrible adhd and pretty significant damage from covid (thanks for being super unsafe and giving it to me 3 times, dad), and the combination makes me extremely inattentive, insane brain fog, can’t pay attention to all the signs, multiple mirrors, other drivers, lights, etc. that come with driving and I’ve just decided I shouldn’t drive because I don’t want other people to be harmed or have to pay money I don’t have for any damages that may happen.

    However at the same time I feel like there’s so much pressure and I won’t be fully free or adult without knowing how to drive. I’m 21 and super embarrassed even though I know it’s the logical and most wise course to take. I drive to and from work but I still have to get driven everywhere else by my mom or dad (usually my mom) and it’s kind of embarrassing, especially because people react so weird when I say I don’t drive as if driving isn’t a big deal and terrifying.

    I have very solid plans to move to one of the biggest cities in the US (2 hours from me) and I know I will never have to drive again but I’m still feeling a bit inferior.

    Sorry to ramble, I just tried to drive in semi busy conditions again and freaked out and had 2 rude drivers behind me throw me totally off. I just can’t keep up at all. My dad had to take over lol.

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    20 days ago

    Venting about adhd

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    I am genuinely so sick of having adhd. I have constant issues getting my medication (oh, you had to make an appointment for this refill! Oh, you have to wait a full fucking month to get a refill so you will inevitably miss days!), constantly lose all my shit, just lost my wallet with all my cash, my debit card, my ID, my social security number, AND my fucking passport because I’m moving and put the important shit in one place, vividly remember putting it in my bag, and it’s still lost, wtf is wrong w me, I’m constantly putting off assignments, I’ve had an essay due for days and I’m only halfway done and don’t have my Vyvanse right now and I just straight up don’t care and don’t want to do it.

    :::