Fanme så 💪

kan huske at min svoger ville have tre børn. Efter nr. to lignede han en levende død i en håndfuld år og nævnte at to var fint. xD jeg bebrejder ham ikke. Det var nogle dejlige mennesker, der kom ud af det, men de havde godt nok også krudt i røven da de var små xD

tillykke!!! :D :D :D

Trump threatened greenland, had all the tech bros at his inauguration and one of them was high on ketamine and heiling, so I figured it was time to leave as many American social media platforms as possible.

The only one I still use is youtube and that’s in a logged out state and in a browser.

Can’t say I miss Facebook, Instagram and reddit. It’s been over a year and I barely think about it nowadays.

I have my issues with Lemmy, but you can filter out most of the bs so at this point it’s mostly memes, animal photography and other wholesome stuff that’s left in my feed. Life is good.

Tror det er fordi når man er 80, så er man alligevel på vej ud.

Vi er lige kommet hjem fra hospitalet og final verdict er:

Celleforandringerne var 8 cm lange.

Fik fjernet 3 lymfeknuder.

Ingen tegn på spredning eller kræft.

🥳

Fik også lige tømt en halv liter blodig væske ud af mit ikke-bryst via kæmpe nål i forgårs, men altså, fuck da det.

Nu får jeg så tilbudt sådant et årligt tjek indtil jeg er 80 år + nogle andre ting og det er jo betryggende.

Har endnu til gode at møde træls personale og de fik også en masse ros i dag for deres samlede indsats. Lægen, som jeg ikke lige havde mødt før var en blok af granit og professionalisme indtil hun fik rosen og så smeltede hun lidt og sagde at “det var godt at du reagerede så hurtigt. Du har reddet dit liv” og da jeg nævnte at jeg er lidt af en hypokonder på mine bedste dage, så begyndte hun at grine. Hun var nice. Jeg kan godt lide når jeg kan få ultra professionelle granitmennesker til at grine :3

I’m literally so stupid that I pictured a regular family accidentally making too many sandwiches in their kitchen one afternoon and then calling the fire department. Didn’t even remotely cross my mind that it was a sandwich shop.

Var det ham, der forsøgte at fjerne det ukrainske flag på en messe og fik bølle-bank af ukrainske diplomater?

Tjekkede lige, og nej det var ikke ham, men man kan jo næsten ikke kende forskel på dem alligevel.

Haha, I mean… Paul Dano, just has a very punchable face. xD I almost feel bad, because I’m sure he’s a wonderful man irl, but he always plays characters you just want to smack around (which is why he was a perfect casting in Prisoners).

JFC, I thought that the people of Lemmy were smarter than this.

You thot wrong.

I’ll give The Batman 2 a watch when it comes out. The Penguin was a pleasant surprise and made me look at The Batman as a potential rather than the meh of a movie that it was. If they keep making movies and shows in this The Crow-inspired Gotham, then I won’t mind. Especially if they can hit the quality of The Penguin in the future.

I can wait for that.

I watched I Swear at some point recently and I really want everyone to give this film a go.

It’s about the true story of a British man who develops tourettes when he is around the age of 13 and the ways this condition isolates him from society, in the cruelest of ways.

But weirdly enough it is also about how tourettes opens a few doors to a meaningful existence when he meets the right people, who are willing to give him a chance to reach his potential.

It is an incredibly heartwarming film and is equal parts hysterically funny and very, very touching. Sometimes it’s downright depressing. You just want to hug this guy the whole time even if it would probably result in him punching you in the mouth and calling you a cunt, lol.

I thought The Drama was quite amazing! One of the more thought provoking and infuriating movies I have seen recently!

The layers in this film and the discussions it is able to start are quite bold and and really important!

And you’re absolutely right that some of the characters were annoying. Especially Rachel and Charlie. I wanted to slap both of them for almost the entire runtime xD

Be my boyfriend, attempting to watch a movie with me. Me doing my best to not spend the entire time babbling about the book it was based on, the behind the scenes details that are so important, yo, and me explaining worldbuilding if there is any because boyfriend needs to know what that yellow flower embroidered on someone’s shirt means and how the seamstress used special silk from some remote place in x country to stay true to the themes in the book.

He prefers to watch movies with me that I haven’t seen before nor know anything about beforehand.

Whomever drew this, is a master at dynamics and comedic timing. I fucking love the energy in every line and every panel.

Helt kort, så kan jeg sige at alt i ASOIAF er fortalt af mennesker. Du kan ikke vide noget, om verden, hvor et menneske ikke har været vidne og har levet længe nok til at vende tilbage med sine fortællinger. Det er derfor der er mange ting om deres verden som er mystisk og forvirrende. Fx, så er Ned den eneste der ved hvem Jons mor er og det er en hemmelighed han ikke deler fordi han er ærekær. Alle andre der kunne have vist hvem Jons mor var, er døde og derfor får vi ikke at vide hvem hun er. Meget få mennesker tror på at white walkers er virkelige og de der tror på dem, fordi de har set dem, bliver sjældent taget alvorligt fordi de er et vildfolk, som resten af westoros synes er mærkeligt og skræmmende. Det er kun da en westorosi ser en af dem med egne øjne, at de bliver bekræftet til at være virkelige.

Så da tvserien viser hvad the white walkers gør ved Crasters babyer, så smadrer de fuldstændig universets mest basale koncept for der er ingen mennesker med evnen til at tale, som er til stede og kan bevidne episoden. Og der KAN ikke være mennesker til at bevidne episoden fordi det foregår så dybt inde i hjertet af det kolde nord, hvis alt, der lever der er mystisk, fremmed og fuldstændig afskåret al menneskelig civilisation.

Det er så fundamentalt en del af måden disse historier bliver fortalt på at man enten skal være dum eller ligeglad for at kunne lave sådan en scene. Og de to showrunners var begge dele, fandt jeg jo så ud af, men jeg kan stadig huske hvordan jeg sad med åben mund og ikke kunne tro mine egne øjne. For indtil det øjeblik, der troede jeg faktisk at de havde respekt for universet og fortalte George’s historie fordi de ville gøre det godt. Efter det, så indså jeg at de virkelig havde talt sandt da de sagde at deres eneste mål var at nå til The Red Wedding og så var de egentlig ligeglade bagefter. Det kunne man fanme godt mærke. 🫠

Ah ja, så er lydbøger nok ikke lige din ting, men håber din kone vil kunne lide dem! Roy er god, også selvom hans stemmer til små piger er lidt træls xD

Ej hvor fedt med en bogkalender! 8D og fair nok at der lige går noget tid. Jeg havde oprindeligt sat mig for at jeg skulle læse/lytte til 50 bøger i år og jeg kom aldrig videre efter den tiende. Mest fordi jeg har en uhyggelig evne til at finde bøger som ikke siger mig en skid xD havde et godt run med lidt Stephen King, men endte med at kede mig og så væltede lortet altså også bare da jeg forsøgte at vælge en bog selv. Kan ikke engang huske hvad den hed. Kun at den var så dårlig, at jeg mistede gejsten til bøger. Prøvede at komme i gang med at læse fysiske bøger også, og der er jeg sådan en type spasser, der læser de første 50 til 100 sider og uanset hvor godt jeg kan lide den, så kommer jeg sjældent videre derfra. Det er derfor lydbøger har reddet mug 100 gange xD Har ca 20 bøger stående på min reol med bogmærker i, der venter på mig. @,@

Ja, det er selvfølgelig ikke til at sige hvordan han har det med det, men jeg tror ikke det er tilfældigt at han aldrig fik skrevet bøgerne færdige. Tror det tog vinden ud af sejlene på ham at de smadrede hans slutning så meget som de gjorde og at samtlige fans HADEDE den - fordi Dumb & Dumber ikke havde evnen og lysten til at fotrælle den ordentligt. Jeg syntes jo stsdig de bsre skulle have opdigtet deres egen slutning og det var også det jeg troede de ville indtil Crasters babyer I sæson 4 og jeg indså at de var talentløse idioter.

George er en lidt sensitiv gut, og plejede at holde sig fra de teorier hans fans havde om de mange mysterier han satte op, for når de gættede dem, så følte han et pres til at ændre dem til noget andet så folk stadig ville blive overraskede. Han gjorde det ikke, fordi det ville jo være dumt, men han holdt sig væk fra forummer og fan teorier så han ikke blev påvirket af det eller mærkede presset.

Jeg tror simpelthen hans berømmelse har overvældet ham og han har fået seriøs præstationsangst. Manden er perfektionist og skriver og omskriver de samme kapitler igen og igen. Jeg tror ikke han længere magter opgaven, og han er for fastgroet i det til at lade en ghost writer overtage. Tror ikke hans stolthed vil tillade ham det. Og et eller andet sted forstår jeg det godt. Det havde været bedre hvis han var blevet færdig med serien før den blev lavet til en tv serie. Og så er det jo forfærdeligt at han gav sin baby til to charlatanner, som i sidste nede bare ville have GoT overstået så de kunne komme videre og lave Star Wars 🤡

I det mindste resulterede deres sløsethed i at de ødelagde deres egne karrierer og ingen gad hyre dem efter sæson 8.

Real.

I’m having a friend over tomorrow. She really wanted to come see me after I had my breast removed. It’s very touching to me that she actually cares this much.

And on Friday I’m going in for a check up at the hospital and most likely some drainage of fluids that have gathered in the wound (which is normal for this type of operation).

I’m going to have my brother and his girlfriend visit on Saturday and on Sunday, if I am able, we are going to my niece’s 18th birthday. I really want to go, because she only turns 18 once!

I am also trying to get going with handwriting a letter for my dad, that I will send as a final communication before I end my relationship with him and my mom. The only problem is that I keep listening to All Saints and eat ice cream, watering plants and listen to old interviews with the Lord of the Rings cast, that I keep forgetting to get on with the letter.

I have it typed on my computer, but I want to send it in handwritten form. And it’s long, so I have a lot of work ahead of me. 😛

I think a lot of the guys who end up in that sphere are struggling with loneliness and severe self esteem issues. You can’t help them all, but everytime you demonize men’s emotions and mock the male loneliness epidemic, you will raise the risk of creating new enemies. Nobody likes to be treated like they are the enemy out of the gate, when they most likely are hurting really bad inside and only need the right nudge to go in a better direction.

I think it is very common for people in general to fall for extreme views when they are hurting, but most people find a way to course correct if they have a support system around them. Those who don’t have that are truly vulnerable to going down the rabbit hole.

It’s kinda like trying to help someone who is stuck in an abusive relationship. You go in and tell them their partner is shit and if they stay with them, then they are shit too. The success rate of getting someone away from their abusive partner by using that tactic, I assume is close to zero. It is hard. The deeper in with the abuse they are, the harder it becomes to help them, and I think that’s why it’s usually easier to just give up on people and call them names rather than actually trying to be empathetic to their situations.

I have listened to a lot of people who either are or were incels at some point and it is far from all of them who are terrible, irredeemable monsters. Especially the teens. If I was supposed to be held responsible for every brain dead idea I had as a teen, then it would be a pretty shitty life. Especially if I was expected to atone for everything hurtful I said or did when I was depressed and being abused by people I thought wanted the best for me.

I feel like everyone gets further by showing compassion and care and getting to the root of what can turn someone toward cult-like environments. Extreme loneliness, possible mental health issues and a failing support system is key in most situations and if we are willing to be that for someone and to show them that they don’t have to atone for life for things they did when they were in a very dark place, then we will probably see positive results.

Dark chocolate. And when I say dark I mean everything on the 70% to 100% cocoa spectrum. Anything below 70% is not dark chocolate to me.

I know I should stop buying it because it’s bad for the environment and there’s a lot of unfairness toward cocoa farmers in the industry… but fuck man. I can cut down on my intake, but I can never cut it out of my life entirely.