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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • I’ll tell you right now that I’d rather ask an LLM what’s wrong with my code than deal with the toxic userbase of stackoverflow (and I say that as someone who never actually got flamed on that site).

    It can definitely be a crutch but that’s an exercise for the user to learn how to not become reliant on it, any more than becoming reliant on an expert by constantly asking them questions.











  • Yeah, I think she does need more professional help than she’s currently getting (or willing to do). We have couple counselling next week, I’m hoping that it helps he realise she needs more help but that she needs to put the work in for it and that’s going to be hard, because I can’t do it for her.

    I have a lot on my plate, not just with her, so I am stretched very thin and I have been up front with her that I can’t do more for her, but that shed also part of the problem and it needs to change, one way or the other.

    I appreciate you taking the time to say these things, thank you for your response.


  • I think I really needed to see this today.

    My partner, whom I love dearly, suffers from quite severe mood swings that can last days and even weeks. When she’s in this low moods, she’s impossibly irrational about everything and I immediately have to walk on egg shells because anything I say might get taken severely out of context and misconstrued as something else, causing her to spiral even more.

    During these times, she spends most of her time hols up in bed, usually in a mixture of physical and emotional pain.

    I’m exhausted, guys. I’ve been living with this for 7+ years now and there’s no end to it.

    I worry if I end the relationship, she’s going to be unable to look after herself and that weighs heavily on me because I don’t see how that ends well. But things don’t get better, either, I’m just trapped in this spiral and don’t know what to do.