We have gotten to a point were it could be a complaint or compliment, like, “this taste like ass” could be a complaint or compliment.
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Treating people with respect has been such an effective communication tool that surprises people. Some people gobsmacked I treat them with human decency and others suprised treating people with basic respect leads to them not “being an asshole”, like they dont realize walking up to someone and screaming at them contributes to them being curt in response.
So pro life tip, be respectful whenever you can it actually makes a difference
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto California@lemmy.world•California schools are scrambling as Trump administration withholds almost $811 million38·7 days agoCongress is supposed to control the purse, not the president. Another blatant illegal overreach of authority, that the GOP will ignore. Californa should not be paying federal taxes. Californa pays more federal tax then it receives and with this, its even more askew.
Trump is spitting in the face od our students, families, teachers and communities.
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•I wish more cities were built around the Dutch "autoluw" concept. There are zero downsides, except for auto manufacturers I guess.English5·7 days ago“poldren” thats nice, yeah. People around here seem to be just done, rampant corruption, almost all the city money goes into the pcoket of the councilmembers or thier business partners. New mayor at least has got some infrastructure projects done, even if it seems half the money was embezzlemed. Compromise is good but also hard…sheriffs have been trying to crack down on atvs because quite alot of people here go around in atvs harassing pedestrians and homeless in the area. And no one feels safe being outside, some shootings every week or so
I’ll look it those speed pedelec, maybe something like that in the states. Need to also really organize some group thats not just trying to lobby for more weed gardens, maybe get some change.
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•I wish more cities were built around the Dutch "autoluw" concept. There are zero downsides, except for auto manufacturers I guess.English6·7 days agoI think I have to seriously consider an ebike.
as for the busses theyve have been in a downward spiral the last 20 years. Shitty routes mean less riders, less riders mean less busses which means longer routes which means less riders. Regularly most of these big 40 something passenger busses they run have 1 passengers. Only people that take them are old, disabled, people that have no other choice.
For shits and gigles after they changed the route I used to take (was 40 min for that 14 miles 2 busses) I took the bus from where id need to commute. 3 busses, 14 miles. It took over 3 hours and the most egregious part was the longest leg which was the 3.5 miles on the local bus that went from my local grocery to my hosue that took a mind numbing 87 minutes. It makes me laugh how SLOW that bus ride was, now they canceled that one so you have to walk the 3~ miles but really you actually save time.
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•I wish more cities were built around the Dutch "autoluw" concept. There are zero downsides, except for auto manufacturers I guess.English7·7 days agoyeah, he outlines the problems really clearly and how it can be solved. I was just talking about it with some people yesterday, with the current Californa contentions about removing minimum parking requirements for affordable housing.
Alot of people are protesting turning ugly lots into affordable housing…ugh. Literally the reasons we can’t have nice things. “Parking in multistory garages instead of a giant 500 car lot so there affordable housing is unacceptable, its inconvenient and it will bring in undesirable” - basically Menlo
Friend of mine lives outside LA, they used a motel 6 into temporary housing for unhoused, no problem. They went to make it housing units for said homeless, locals got pissed, fought toooth and nail, said itd bring in undeasaribles, increase crime etc etc.
Officials were confused bcs the people they where complaining about had been living there for 3 years already jus they where converting it from “motel 6” to basically an apartment building. smh.
Mixed use buildings and affordable housing without needing cars is such a dream 15-20 minutes cycle would be nice, shame its so uncommon and so disliked by some people no one gets it. To my closest store its a 10 minute drive / ~hour walk (before they canceled the bus route it was also a bit over an hour but 2 hours back) city has a quarter mile / 0.4km of bike lane and alot of streets dont have sidewalks
40k people, smh (ofc its partly because of the extensive blatant corruption here but ah)
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•I wish more cities were built around the Dutch "autoluw" concept. There are zero downsides, except for auto manufacturers I guess.English5·7 days agoHmm, I haven’t fully looked into e-bikes. Maybe 60 minutes isn’t unachavaible. another problem is alot of the route doesn’t have sidewalks, let alone bike lanes…at least its paved.
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•I wish more cities were built around the Dutch "autoluw" concept. There are zero downsides, except for auto manufacturers I guess.English32·8 days ago= ( Everytime I see a fuck cars or pro bicycle post I get sad, sitting in my U.S. urban city. I want to ride a bike to work, I want to use public transport but 70 minutes one way by bike is a bit too long and its still half as long as taking the bus woukd take. and no I will never shut up my gripping that a 14 mile drive should not take 2.5 hours by bus. (For context my commute is 20-30 minutes by car)
This also means people assign a negative bias to men, it s relevant in educstion. Studies have found teachers are more likely to find the behavior of a male student wrong even if they did nothing wrong and/or the same behavior was done by a female student, they also will observe male students more then female.
Also, learning or behavioral conditions are less likely to be recognized in female studies. For example a young student that is hyper focused on rules, does not speak up, stays very still, etc when that is not age expected behavior, observers will commonly attribute such behavior as “lady like” and ignore obvios signs of behavioral conditions.
yay for unconscious bias training that is now getting persecuted…
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto California@lemmy.world•Will California ban ultra-processed foods in school meals?1·10 days agoIt could be tricky if it goes through. The definitions are too broad. Thier biggest concern are schools that dont meet meal best practices, but if yhey are already not meeting those, why would they substantially follow these?
Also how far reaching would this be? The school I work at, if they pre slice apples, they add some pineapple juice to help prevent them oxidising, that seems to run afoul of the letter of the law. and the HS I went to, it was a small place, independent study program. So kids where there 2 hours a week, there was no cafeteria. The school kept kraft mac and cheese, instant ramen and some other things if any kid was hungry, that certainly would run afoul but the alternative is just not to have any food available?
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Beavers@lemmy.world•Authorities Question Unlicensed Beaver Releases5·10 days agoMy only question is, where are they getting the beavers? Great to see ecological restoration
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What topic do you have the most knowledge, and can you explain it so a child can understand it?3·10 days agoEarly childhood development and history, and no, while the whole point of my degrees is how to teach children, I cannot teach how to teach children to children.
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldtoUnited States | News & Politics@midwest.social•Trump ends trade talks with Canada over tax on US tech firms6·11 days agoIn the age old, wise words of President Hoover, Don’t need to do anything, the great depression is a poor person problem. All this just affects the poor people, no need to lift a finger. /sarcasm/ (Although that is why he didn’t do anything)
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•SaveAFox rescue founder Mikayla Raines dies by suicide after online harassment, husband says2·13 days agothis genuinely breaks my heart. I didn’t follow them as much but had seen alot of thier stuff. They did amazing work. This is absolutely gut wrenching. Condolences to the bereaved, the world got a little dimmer.
Lol, yeah, weather has been nice last few days.
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Progressive Politics@lemmy.world•US State Department Spokeswoman Says Israel Is Greater Than America6·14 days agoI mean, isreal is pretty great, no? They fatten themselves on a genocide every country except 2 are agianst and get funded billions to continue it. Trump is trying to emulate just a fraction of thier power.
Bro, what happened to you, why is parts of the east hotter then parts of the mojave.
Everytime I see one if these snail memes now I just want to comment, “…and now you lost the game.”
HexadecimalSky@lemmy.worldto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•The White House is paving over the Rose Garden with concreteEnglish20·18 days agoThe rose gardes deco has gotten controversy, but a green space seems way better then drab concrete. Such a tall flagpole wont even be seen in press conferences. I bet he got stuck in some mud and got mad, and the flag pole is a vain attempt to say hes got a huge pole…
Fun fact, Sonics canonical gender is hedgehog