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Cake day: April 6th, 2025

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  • Okay,. I hope you have all enjoyed venting your emotions on the matter. Empathy is absolutely appreciated. Now going forward, may I set an example here and ask you all to do similar in the future: Include how it could have been handled better.

    There are many ways to go at a situation like this. Teach the kids some social skills. Just a few off the top:

    • Parenting, social control – kids can speak up and say “yo this is not okay”.
    • Own it: We were born naked. We are naked in our clothes, it is all the same. If you have the confidence, say: “Psh, the real thing is MUCH better”.
    • Turn it around: “What do you need a fake nude for, can you not get a girl to be naked with you? Pathetic…”
    • condescending tone “Aw thanks, you’re thinking about me that much? Cute.” etc.

    I understand, not always easy, more so at that age and dependent on personality. This style can be expanded, make it a thing. Nix the bullshx.