Piggybacking off of Lady Butterfly’s question the other day!

  • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
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    15 days ago

    As a millennial, I had access to porn rather early in my life with very little guidance. Luckily I didn’t stumble into too dark of things back then, but I’ve always had a fascination with sex, porn, sex work, autonomy, and women’s roles in sex. In many ways, this trajectory gave me confidence and a way to find my footing in a world that seemed like it was just for men.

    Pondering along this line of thought, perhaps it’s not such a mystery why I ended up taking more of a “domme” role in the bedroom as I aged.

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      13 days ago

      What I find really funny about your comment Velma, is that I had the exact same experience except it’s made me take on a much more “submissive” role in bed.

      Except when it comes to pegging, that’s where the more “domme” side comes out lol

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        13 days ago

        How interesting! I definitely have played with being more submissive and found it simply wasn’t as satisfying as being more in control. It thrills me to my core to be the “director” and pleasure people more or less. It’s so cool how different people’s sexual preferences can be!

        Goddamn, isn’t pegging so much fun? Hehehe

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    15 days ago

    It’s probably made me more open to/interested in, shall we say, less traditional sexual activities. People are so creative!