• SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca
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    7 days ago

    It’s possible not all men think the same. There may be different men making different comments about things they see.

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      Did you happen to check out the rules of the community?

      If you did, are you complying with them? If you didn’t, why didn’t you?

    • velma@sh.itjust.works
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      Last time I checked, the state of Utah consumed the most porn in the US.

      The meme isn’t really talking about individual men.

  • Garbagio@lemmy.zip
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    Easy: Control. Let’s talk about hijabs and bikinis. Islamic patriarchies want sisters to wear head coverings. To them, it is good. But some independent Islamic sisters want to wear hijabs as an expression of their own faith. To those same patriarchies, this is bad. Watch how the Islamic right falls in with the christian right when people express support for women choosing to wear hijabs. The belief was never that women should or shouldn’t wear anything; it was that women should be forced to wear what men say, regardless of what they want. Bikinis. A lot of men hate sisters in bikinis, but will go home and goon over any bikini content tailored to them. Again, it’s not that women should or should not show skin; men just want women to have no agency over their bodies.

        • Wren@lemmy.today
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          Dude browses by “all” and has the nerve to ask why a community is on his feed.

        • velma@sh.itjust.works
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          Because you’re browsing “all”.

          Try subscribing to communities you like or start blocking communities you don’t want to see in order to tailor your experience a bit more!

          • ZDL@lazysoci.al
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            Men just aren’t very technically-minded. The concept that something called “all” will literally show them “all” content is alien to their non-technical minds best suited to watching men run into each other head-first and screaming out random epithets at referees.

    • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Due to the past entire week of darkness it appears you may have been unable to read the community rules. This is a women’s only community. Unless I am mistaken about the context in which you referred to yourself as a man in a previous comment elsewhere, please refrain from commenting here in future. Thanks!

  • Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca
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    I for one will never complain about a woman wearing revealing clothing. But gurl… That top with THOSE shoes?!

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    8 days ago

    Oh hey you, I didn’t expect to see you in here! Welcome!

    Cognitive dissonance is common especially amongst those that don’t do the work of examining their own biases and prejudices.

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    Because it’s not for them in public and it makes them feel feelings that they can’t act on while online they can do whatever they want.

    Of only they would be nice and build trust they could go to places where people want to be touched.

  • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    You are a grade A shit stirrer in that way.

    (This is a compliment BTW, those weird puritanical types can go do one - keep it up!)

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    Encountering this attitude in the haremlit space was strange. This is literally a genre about erotica and unconventional relationships… So why are you being so puritan?

  • kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Men will complain about women looking pretty and then complain that they don’t look pretty enough, personally I think all women are pretty :3

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      Mhm there’s definitely some men that can’t stand to see a woman acting on her own accord, but will obsess over another woman doing the same as long as it’s for men.

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        Yeah I think the commonality in these behaviors is that they serve to enforce the social order. Whether they realize it or not, that’s what they’re doing, and viewing it through that lens makes it much more clear what’s going on.

    • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      You too seem to be missing some context. This is a women’s only community. Please refrain from commenting here in future. Thanks!